So I almost never cry, but I've had a really awful week and my boyfriend has been staying at my place for the past few days to keep me company. He's never seen me cry and we've been together for almost 8 months. He was joking around with me while we were making dinner last night and he said something I usually would have found funny but I just started crying instead and then I couldn't stop. It was just one small thing that snowballed into me crying about everything that's happened recently and it was a mess. I feel terrible because he felt awful and kept apologizing even though I told him it wasn't his fault. He was really sweet and he held on to me and rubbed my back but I could tell he didn't know what to say.
Guys- does seeing your girlfriend cry annoy you or make you uncomfortable? How can I apologize to him for being so emotional?
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It doesn't even annoy me a little. If you cry there's something wrong going on, so I would try to comfort you and be there for you.
I think your bf didn't know what to say because he wasn't expecting you to cry because of what he said.
Don't apologize for getting emotional, if you feel the need to cry, do so, you have someone that cares about you, and he's there for you. I rather see you getting emotional than trying to hide your feelings. I'm your boyfriend I want to help you.0