So there's this guy I've gone on a few dates with, he's paid each time and made it known that we're dating. Yet I get the feeling that he's currently "dating" me until he finds someone he's more into. Or maybe he's dating multiple women? Here's why I've come to this conclusion-> he's not affectionate with me (usually I know early on if a guy wants to sleep with me or wants to seriously date with the amount of affection shown). There's no hand holding or touching done on his part so it's awkward and these dates feel more like casually hanging out with a friend. Also, he's still active on dating sites. Other guys I've dated in the past would delete their accounts from the very beginning. Not the case with this one. Is it too early to bring this up? Is this man just stringing me along until he finds something better?
Is he using me as a placeholder?
What Guys Said 1
He is not serious.
The reason why you feel like he is not serious is because your gut instinct is telling you, and your gut instinct is always right.
I'd caution you to understand that if at any point during dating, a guy shows you large amounts of affection, it does not mean he loves you. it means he loves your body, yes, but what about your heart? If he cared for your heart he would wait for your body.
I am just telling you.
Listen to your gut instincts. Not your heart. One day they will both line up, and that is the man who will love you fully.1
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