Do you think using someone as a placeholder especially to that extreme is toxic?
Using someone as a placeholder is horrible. Hopefully you've blocked him from your life. You've indeed dodge a bullet.
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To propose to someone who you see as a placeholder is messed up. Now if he originally saw you as such but changed his mind, that's different.
No. That was a good tactic by him, but a bad partner choice by you.
You both were idiots
How do you know you were a place holder and not the relationship just ending because it was over
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I believe it’s mean and cruel to use women/men as a backup plan.
That's called "hypergamy" and it was pioneered by women.
if he did this karma will bite him soon like a cancer or smth don’t worry
God sees everythingIt’s toxic but it happens a lot more than people realize.
Thats a pretty low blow.
Yes, that's very toxic and glad you found out.
how do you know?
He an ass wole
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