Both have same taste in music which we share and introduce eachother to new bands. Both into film and writing (career wise too). Always texting/messaging in long intellectual paragraphs about music, movies, etc. I've never had this long of a conversation with someone in a long time. He said I'm really pretty. Sorry if i sound conceited or narcisstic but I don't think I'm that ugly to be honest. I think i have a nice body (he said mine is beautiful), thoughtful and nice.
We always have a good time together, blasting records, watching films, cuddling, talking and dancing (nude;kinda my idea) . Making out is always fun especially when we do role play haha. I seem to arouse him and he pleases me too. I don't know how he feels about me. I used to be self conscious and insecure a lot but I don't understand why he wouldn't want me?
The title and the description seem to pose different questions:
Answer to the title: No, same musical taste doesn't even make it to the list of personality traits I look for in a girl.
As for the description: Do you mean you arouse him, but he doesn't want to have sex with you? Or that he says he doesn't want anything besides this kind of friends with benefits relationship? If it's the former, maybe he's insecure (similar to the insecurities a girl could have when having sex with a guy). If it's the latter, he's probably not into serious relationships at the moment. If you were asking something else, explain.
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If they look attractive enough to them, then sure. If not, then they don't give much shit about common interests.
I am a DJ by profession. I have tried to date girls that were not into music for clubs. It is difficult. It's more than just music. They don't get my whole life style. It's like a whole world opens up for them and they are kinda scarred of it. This is my personal experience so I don't know if it's the same for other people.
The girls that were into the same music as I am understand my life style as well.
Considering all the things you said you two do, pretty sure he's attracted to you. Anyways I'm into classic rock and considering that's not the norm now a days if I find someone who likes that it is a huge plus but it's not necessary for them to have similair music taste
For me it is a dealbreaker, I go to shows frequently and if she's into country or dubstep/house or some other bullshit that I can't stand I can't see myself just "putting up with it", it also tends to be that we don't have the same interests in other things as well (movies, tv shows, books, etc.)
What do you mean he wouldn't (doesnt) want you? Did I not just read that he compliments your beauty, your body, engages in long conversations, kisses, cuddles, and dances naked with you? What am I missing?
It's a huge plus but they also gotta be somewhat physically attractive too and have a good personality. I've been seeing more attractive women at metal shows like Ghost, Red Fang, Mastodon, and other sludge metal bands.
Its great to have similar tastes. I means you can have a lot to talk, point proved as you said that you do. If you are making out and what not and he compliments you then he likes you. Same interest plus attraction means the guy is into you. As far as I can tell he hasn't given you any reason to worry.
'Long intellectual paragraphs' and music and movies don't go together. Intellectual people are into literature, science or maths. Also, no offence, but you really do sound very conceited. You're probably not all you're cracked to be and desperately need to step down from that pedestal you've propped yourself on. Arrogant women are never attractive women, and arrogant women are usually insecure because they need to constantly reassure themselves of their own worth.
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