I'm 16 and a junior in high school. She's my first girlfriend as I've been rejected twice prior to asking her out. I thought I had absolutely no chance, but I had the shot, so I took it and amazingly she smiled and said yes. I couldn't believe it, I couldn't have been dreamed of her saying yes to me and she did. We've been together for 4 months. She won't kiss me, lean on me, hold my hand, or anything with me in public. But she'll do all that when we're in private. Yesterday I asked her if she was embarrassed and she told me no. Why won't she give me affection in public?
Most Helpful Girl
Some girls don't want a lot of attention being called to it. I am also the same age as you but as a girl, i personally am very affectionate in public. I don't know I just am even with friends. Sometimes I don't even think about it. It's something like a "Hey yo, this is mine and there is love n shit going on ok." kinda thing. But a lot of girls are different. It also depends on if she is shy or not. I had two friends that were dating and the guy always wouldn't want to kiss or anything in public but she did and blah blah you know. She was just shy. But if she has had other boyfriends before and has been affectionate with them.. then i would probably question some things.1
Most Helpful Guy
Some people (including me) hate to be intimate in public. I absolutely HATED doing it with my ex and she would complain and be selfish about it until I did it. I don't fully blame her because she is a nice person and I allowed her to step all over me. But anywas she probably just doesn't like it.2