It's obvious none of you would possibly know the answer but Id just like a second opinion so I know I'm not just being a douchebag.
Our one month anniversary is on Friday and we still haven't done anything sexual. And her period started today so its not like she wants to do it Friday 😒
We were already friends before we started dating so we've already gotten past the I love you's and stuff.
Me and her mom are close too and her mom tells me that I'm all she ever talks about.
She's not a virgin. She had sex with her previous boyfriendsds. (Not sure how far into the relationships)
So if she's so into me, why haven't we done anything sexual yet?
I've always had sex with my previous girlfriends like after hanging out 3 or so times, so this is kind of unusual to me I guess
Most Helpful Girl
I understand your confusion - obviously, you and she have a very deep & long connection and this just doesn't make much sense. I think there could be 2 reasons - either she may have some past abuse or feel afraid to share something personal with you; or, her love and great value of you may be so intense that she could be super nervous or feel overwhelmed/embarrassed. You didn't mention if the 2 of you have discussed this. If not, try broaching the subject (or ask her mom to do some "spying" :)) and asking her what she thinks/feels. If you have, maybe ask again or see if her reasons not to are valid.0
Most Helpful Guy
She probably just wants somebody to get all mushy with in her spare time. And here's the funny part tho, since there isn't anything in the rule book saying that she has to "put out" until she's "ready"... you have to just sit around and wait until the time comes. But hey you could always sd.keepcalm-o-matic.co.uk/.../...e-the-bitch-7.png ^_^1