On a forum I frequent a particular post made by a female user gave me incite into women's mentality:
"Women aren't desperate as men and would take whatever is given to them. We either get the guy we want or are content with being alone"
As you know many women have high standards both physical, as well as superficial in terms of money and status. Physical standards will be lowered by women if wealth and status are increased to higher levels. So what would the dating game be if men also had high standards in the physical departmnet (since men like looks alot) instead of accepting every 5/10 female as shown below:
Let say men were as content with women on being alone and choose to go all or nothing approach. So say only holding out for women who looked like this:
So the premise here is what would the dating game be like if men were as picky as women and won't content with having a skinny fat, or slight overweight/curvy girlfriend. What if men only settled for girls who worked out and/or have a nice face. In rare cases for women who don't work out, they were genetically gifted with an amazing body and high metabolism that they barely put on weight.
Most Helpful Girl
All women certainly aren't like the woman on your forums, that's why some can't be single, they'll stay in a shitty unhappy relationship til another guy comes along and are never happy being alone.
And for your last paragraph, don't you see how many women aren't with guys with washboard abs? Most guys don't have that "perfect" body, so obviously most women don't end up with a guy like that, and on top of that, are you seriously saying you don't see those fat even obese guys who have a girlfriend or wife?
It's more down to individual preferences and personality than it is down to gender.0
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Most Helpful Guy
If men were just as picky as women, then man or woman will find a their perfect match. Is that what your question was driving at?
e. g., Man likes a woman who picks her boogers, but has a peculiar quirk that he likes to eat her boogers. Woman picks her boogers and has also a quirk that likes it when her man eats her booger.
**NOTE: Sorry, couldn't find a quirk on the fly and while I was picking my own nose decided to use it as an example to get to the point.
An eye for an eye; tooth for a tooth concept.0