If read a lot of post where guys claim girls who go clubbing are not girlfriend material. I think that's a load of BS! I love to go clubbing, I like having a good time with my friends, that does not mean I get wasted AF or is all over every single guy, making out with a different guy every night. I don't even pay attention to anyone except the people I am with. I can then say that guys who play video games is not dating material? But I won't, because I won't judge whether someone is boyfriend material based on something he likes doing that I might not. (I LOVE Video games, is just an example). I'll base that on how he treats me and whether he respects me and I can have fun with him.
I would like to know why a girl is not girlfriend material is she likes going out to a club?
Most Helpful Guy
I don't mind if a girl goes out clubbing, she will lose the "girlfriend material" status if she likes to get wasted, twerks on every guy, makes out with several guys, and ends up going home with at least one every time she's out clubbing. I don't like that type of attitude on a girl I wanna make my girlfriend.
But if she's just there to dance with some friends, meet new people, and have a few drinks, then I'm totally fine with that.
I think most guys here when they say a girl that goes clubbing isn't girlfriend material, imagine the first scenario, the wasted easy/promiscuous girl.4
Most Helpful Girl
The people who say that have probably never even set foot in a nightclub. I mean, they seem to think that nightclubs are these dens of rampant iniquity and bacchanalia. Good little girls enter them, and, by last call, they've turned into promiscuous slutty slutfaces.
I mean, they actually seem to think that. For real.
Girl, you and I know that a club is just a place to go hang out, and then leave with the same friends you went with. The only differences are, there's cool music and screen shows, we get to dress proportionally more awesome, and it's actually socially acceptable to TALK IN OUR OUTSIDE VOICES like I do all the time, all day, every day anyway. LOL
Clubs are places to get all dressed up, and hang out with yr friends, and dance a little bit, and make awkward decisions about "100% certain pain of wearing heels all night vs. 20% chance of stepping on glass if barefoot". They're fun.
Sure, sometimes people get drunk and make poor life decisions, but, that doesn't happen any more often than it does anywhere else.
In fact, tbh it probably happens less often.
I mean, I can't speak for all women, but, when I was your age and single? When I'd get all dolled up and dressed up, my standards would go way the hell up right along with all that stuff. Way less likely to hook up with random boys, I was. You'd have had a better chance at me if you'd met me in the grocery store.
Don't listen to the haters. They're just being ignorant haters.
When my daddy'll take our kids for the night, my husband and I STILL go clubbing, and we're ≈twice yr age. Yep, I'm just not wife material. <34
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