This has always puzzled me. Is cold approaching women for dates something feasible? Unless the guy is exceptionally hot, I don't see any reason why a girl would agree to go out with him without even knowing who he is. Also, I'm not talking about nightclub situations here, where people of both genders are looking for just hookups, and cold approaches work very well.
So guys, have you ever cold approached a girl for a date (not sex) and she agreed, in spite of you not being exceptionally good looking?
Girls, have you ever agreed for a date with a guy who cold approached you, and he wasn't that good looking?
P. S. Just looking for opinions here, I wouldn't personally cold approach anyone.
Most Helpful Girl
I would love it if a guy would cold approach me. Mainly I have no idea how anyone gets dates outside of being online anymore.
I never get approached and I'm starting to feel like there is something wrong with me. Guys always say they approach women, but I have never had it happen to me. I'm usually the one who shows interest, I smile, kind of keep looking at the guy, hoping he'll notice. But then usually his wife or girlfriend come by and then I feel stupid :(
So I mainly stick to online dating. Which I'm not having a whole lot of luck in :(
You don't even have to ask a girl for a date. Maybe just strike a conversation up with her and see how it goes. If it goes well, maybe ask her out for a coffee sometime. See if she'll give you her number so you can text her.
That way you aren't asking for a date, but just a coffee. Most people would be down for coffee and talking if they are single and are open to dating.
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Most Helpful Guy
Debating going anon to avoid appearance of narcissism but what the hell..
YES cold approaching works, BUT you have to be hot. You simply have to be an attractive guy. I used to be average af and approaching just didn't really work, but now, it definitely is effective.2
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