Red flag... it is definitely totally rude to be checking phones and shit when you are with someone else. it can be justified with the fact that we are in a technological age but still... its frickin rude. im surprised you aren't way madder. Good news is you weren't on a "date" or anything.. you were just hanging out.
mine was an actual date and she was laughing at whatever she was reading on Facebook and ignoring me most of the time... i left her ass there. i don't go for that.
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Phones really shouldn't be on during dates, especially formal ones, with the exception of emergencies or emergency workers.
Hmm, unless one is pressed for time or can't get there to walk someone to their car, it seems thoughtless to do.
If you angry about it, (and it sounds like it from your post), you shouldn't text him back and probably let him go. Who knows why things happen or why people do the things they do?
Its super rude. I had a very similar experience. That guy kept looking at the phone and his phone kept ringing and he kept replying to messages. I got so pissed that we were in the dinner, I asked the waiter to come over, and said check please, he was like what? I told him, yeah you don't need the dinner, you go eat your cellphone up... lol Yea you have a very good reason to feel angry.
Very rude of him! I don't even like my family constantly being on their phones if I'm out having dinner or lunch with them. It's like, I'm right here! Talk to me!! So definitely don't let that happen again. Move on from that guy.
Sounds like an asshole. If a man wants to be with you the only thing he will be using a phone for is taking pictures of you. I hate people who use a phone while out on a date. So rude!
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The way you wrote it I'd say he was being rude but the way I'm imagining it it sounds like a guy who's just unaware that he was being insensitive. If he thought you were ugly he wouldn't have agreed to go on the date. In all honesty it sounds like a guy who's following some bad PUA advice.
You have a right to be angry. He acted like a jerk and has no respect for you. You can find someone better.
Yes, that is very rude and disrespectful towards you
That would really irritate me and I'd probably just find an excuse to leave.
Fuck all that, it's very rude. I would drop a chick so fast doin that kinda shit.
Yeah don't see that guy again he is a waste of ur time.
Yes, that's very rude, I don't like such behaviour.
Yeah, that's rude as hell.
totally rude and stupid
Yes yes it is
he was rude.
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