A guy told everyone we did anal?

[Random_chick_2384]

I want to text him and asked him why he told everyone that? He is my ex and I have him blocked on everything because I was mad. But should I text and ask?

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

yes and unblock him because that in my opinion makes you look like he was trying to tell the truth and you are trying to hide. confront him about it and ask him nicely why. The thing is if you did do anal you can't really do anything but be mad at him so then go ahead and block him on everything. But if you didn't, be calm about it and ask him why. If you go ape s*** on him, some people will be scared of you or will be encouraging you. Or the 3rd option is just tell the school and get him in trouble for bullying. If your school is like mine they will believe you without any proof just because you are a girl and he is a guy and feminism has victimised women and they will believe you right away. If they aren't like that like my school then scratch that idea. I wish you luck.

[ObscuredBeyond]

Anal can kill you. Don't do anal, period. But especially don't let a man use you. If he offers anal as an excuse for why you should put out with him regardless your concerns, that's telltale that he's trash and is using you. Don't let yourself be used like that again.

I know what it's like to be used. Tell him he should be extremely lucky this isn't a barbaric and backwards Middle Eastern country, where they would have chopped off his dick by now and dipped the rest of him in nitric acid.

Also, tell him that he should be lucky his doesn't rot off. Make up some disease you are still a carrier of. See how he reacts.

[Perkish]

Anal can kill you?
Chop off d**ks in middle east?
What are you talking about? I have never heard of either of these happening and I've lived in the east myself!

[ObscuredBeyond]

@Perkish: Somalia? Syria? Iran? Any of those other hell holes?

And I have read the accounts of women who almost died after complications from anal sex.

[Perkish]

Please place some links about the anal cases, I am curious if it's true, sounds awful.

In the middle east, I've heard and read only of hands being chopped off for stealing and that's only in the horrible occupied places or in some crazy case in saidiArabia. That's messed uppppp but most Arab countries don't apply this lol too harsh.
BUT When I think of penis getting chopped, it's usually about angry wives or girlfriend (yikes! Shudders)
m.reddit.com/.../
And found this
www.theguardian.com/.../improbable-research-thai-women-cut-off-penis
Sorry for awful Stories guys!! :((

My point is, it's too stereotyping and hateful to call the entire middle east a "hell hole" :/ even if some crappy things happen there, others consider it home, and most Arabs are very good people unlike the idiot awful criminals plastered on tv. Criminals = minority, not the average. some laws there are messed up. Do we agree on that unfairness? Yes. But penis chopping? Nope. That is NOT a norm there.

[nikol_]

Just ignore the asshole. Guys like that aren't worth any of your time. Just tell everyone who asks you that it's not true and don't feel the need to prove it to them. My God, I hate guys like that.

[Random_chick_2384]

Thanks!

[CrazynKinky]

It doesn't matter. Anal is pretty normal at this point in life so there no reason to be that upset. It sucks that it was something personal between the two of you but don't waste your time on him

[Random_chick_2384]

I decided not to message him but I unblocked him from everything and he messaged me and said he was sorry

[Relentless_Hippie]

Yeah, see if he gives you a reason and then screen shot his responses so everyone can know he was lying.

[Random_chick_2384]

Okay. I probably won't screen shot tho. Thank you!

[Relentless_Hippie]

You'd prefer to have your reputation tarnished? If he's lying about you then you owe him zero respect.

[BertMacklinFBI]

Ignore Ignore Ignore. Any reaction from you will only satisfy him. Don't even try to go out of your way to prove yourself to anyone, just let it be and if people ask you personally, then just tell them casually that it didn't happen.

[Prof_Don]

What a tactless asshole! Some people, like your boyfriend, aren't mentally meture enough for sex.

Women value confidentiality when it comes to sex, and your boyfriend just learned that the hard way.

[Becky01]

if someone mentions it to you that you and he had anal just turn around and say to them yes he took the dildo in really well

[JuniorcertHELP]

LMAO yes second this

[Becky01]

@JuniorcertHELP
ha ha ha

[GirlGuy123]

Really man how low can he get.
Bad facing a minor girl who has done nothing.
What will he get out of it only god knows.

[akadatank44]

Just donit. If he won't respond play fire with fire. Be like that was anal? I could barely feel anything that was your dick? Lmao

[April10]

Just ignore it. He wants a reaction. Don't give him one

[singlebee]

He is trying to get traction or if you... Best thing to do is not react... Otherwise he wins

[singlebee]

*reaction..

[Tarvold]

Nothing good can come of it.

You should lean into it and tell everyone that yes you guys did anal, but you weren't the one receiving.

[Tarvold]

Argh crap... forgot to check asker's age again.

Someone report what I said and have it deleted.

[Random_chick_2384]

What do I say? He told everyone we did anal and I want to ask why

[Anonymous]

I don't know the situation. Was he lying about it, or telling the truth? Either way, he sucks for telling anybody about that. I wouldn't talk to him if I was you.

[Melcart23]

Nope. Don't even entertain it. If you give it your time and attention, you'd be doing yourself a disservice

[Random_chick_2384]

I just want to talk to him about it. And thank you!

[Melcart23]

Sure, no problem.

[hotstuffSRD]

Immature kid
Be happy that you leave him

[Random_chick_2384]

He dumped me

[hotstuffSRD]

So he used you
Still doesn't matter
Just learn from your mistake and tell him to respect women

[zombiebabe]

no need to... he is immature... you deserve better

[front2back]

Yay high school boys.

[Random_chick_2384]

Tell me about it. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

Guys talk, just like women do

[Random_chick_2384]

Everyone believes it. So I have a rep now for letting guys fuck me in the ass

[Opinion Owner]

awe, im sorry. i mean its true though, right, you do anal

[Random_chick_2384]

Yeah totally. 😒

[Opinion Owner]

then why should it matter. i mean, you do it, be proud