I'm curious with how guys feel about this rejection. My ex would always try to turn me on. If I rejected sex he would usually stop talking to me.( He would stop sulking after a day or two.) Sometimes he wouldn't even want to kiss me!
Are your feelings hurt?
How do you deal with this rejection?
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah, I do get my feelings hurt. Its not as much about just the release, because if that were the case, I could always just masturbate. Its more about wanting to be desired by your partner.
In all my past relationships, when my partner was in the mood, and I wasn't, I still gave oral. They usually did the same for me. Even if you don't want to have sex, you can at least show them that you desire them sexually by doing something smaller (ie oral sex).
I'm not saying you should feel obligated to do it if you don't want to. Its just a nice thing to do for your partner, and a possible solution to your problem if you don't wanna hurt your BF's feelings.0
Most Helpful Girl
Wow, he sounds like a prissy baby. If I turn my boyfriend down he will either 1) make me turned on :3 and sex happens or 2) he just goes with the flow. He understands if I'm not down for it then-a few hours later I will.2