Well I'm an 18 year old, born in Canada, and I feel as if I won't ever get a girlfriend. Before I figured I could eventually but now I think it's not likely. I'm Indian, and I saw a statistic that showed that Indian men are the least desired by women. I've ran polls, and most girls seem to think Indian guys are creepy and weird. The problem is, SO many of them are creepy, but SO many are not creepy. I live in an area with very few white people, and when I do see them, male or female, they just always look so beautiful I can't help but feel that way, and I can't help but feel like ill never stand a chance. For some reason, Indian girls dont like me either, because I don't act Indian enough. I've attracted white and black girls before, so that should be evidence that my personality should get me through, but after seeing the statistics, it feels hopeless. I can't help but feel inferior. To indian girls, im too westernized, but to western girls, I look to Indian.
Most Helpful Girl
Because you've probably internalized way too much of what you see on forums like this. In reality, Indian guys aren't all that avoided or hated by girls. It depends on the group you're hanging out with but around where I live, I see a lot of white girls as well as brown girls with brown boyfriends quite a lot.
If you believe that your race will be an issue, then your behaviour will change in a way to make that reality. Try to get the idea that your skin colour alone will rub girls the wrong way and just approach/chat with girls without that thought in your mind. Assuming that you're not hardcore creeping on them or behaving inappropriately, some girls will probably react pretty positively.1
Most Helpful Guy
You're super young first of all, don't get all depressed you have your whole life ahead of you to improve your skills with women.
It sounds like you want to date a white girl and that's fine but definitely can be more difficult. While racism isn't at play, people do tend to have preferences. Tinder pretty clearly highlighted this fact which I already assumed. I swipe right to about 80% white girls and 20% Asian. My matches are 80% Asians and about 20% white girls.
That being said, I've still dated white girls and you can too if that is your preference albeit will be more difficult than for a white male. You definitely want to dress and have values or interests that align more with caucasian culture if that is your goal.
That is a ridiculous story to tell yourself that so many brown guys are creepy and that's why you have a bad dating experience with white girls. It really just comes down to preference and you are not inferior. Don't lose hope and work on your attraction skills. Don't become jaded when things don't go well, continue to persist and you will find a girl eventually. The journey may not be easy but it will be worth it in the end.0