I've been seeing and hooking up with this guy for almost 3 months now. We text/chat each other daily and one of our convos went like this.
Him: I'm on the train! Me: Take care Him: Love you jk hahaha Me: Oh cmon. Say it like you mean it lool Him: If I did, you'd be running for sure Me: Haha you a** Him: See? Me: What haha are you for real Him: Yea why not. Besides, your mom likes me lol
After that I just kind of laughed it off and he did too. I like him tbh but I got kinda scared. I also don't know if I should take what he's saying seriously. What do you think? Did he mean anything by that or is he just playing head games with me?
One of my former FWBs and I have said to each other that we love each other. We never dated, but just had great sex together. 30 years later, we don't sleep together anymore, but see each other regularly, and kiss briefly, and tell each other that we still love each other. It was always a "fun" love, maybe like what your guy is conveying.
Sounds like one of those feeler moves, like yes he kinda means it, but he's going to joke about it so that if you react in the way he doesn't want, he can just be like LOL HAHA JK I WAS TOTALLY JOKING. I wouldn't do anything differently for the time being unless it comes up again, then you can ask him in person if he really meant what he said. Or if you want you can one day respond with "lol love you too" and see his reaction.
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