I always wear modest clothing and don't wear makeup. But I always attract weird, creepy guys over 40 that stalk me. They even become obsessive to the point I want to call cops. Only few good guys are ever attracted to me. Why is this?
FYI, I am tall, confident and independent. I thought they are only attracted to timid, shy and unassertive girls?
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Well I totally get what you're saying I used to attract fuck boys but I really wanted a relationship rather than friend with benefits or one-night-stands.
You have to be aware of where you are and try to avoid those places because that's were they always try to talk to you.
You have to make sure that you don't give them any kind of hope or something because if they stalk you is because they believe they might have a chance with you or whatever, make something up, LIE!
Do not be nice, you don't have to be nice if you want the person to be gone!!
I am a nice person and is hard to say no but you have to learn how to say NO and just be an asshole if necessary...
Stalking is so dangerous make sure they don't know where you live or where you work at tho.