Girls, Why do women ignore me?

[Anonymous]

I'm 25, kissless virgin who's never been on a date (and I went to college). I have tried multiple dating sites, but literally every single girl ignores me. I've tried tinder and I swipe right on everything and never got a match, I've swiped right on bumble and never even got a match, I've tried match and was completely ignored there, I've tried OkCupid and managed to get maybe one back and forth for like 3 or four back and fourth messages before being ignored as well. I've tried meeting people at bars and clubs and wait for it... I was ignore there. I'm never crude or an asshole. I don't get it. Why do women hate me. i honestly wish I could remove the desire for intimate relationships because I feel like I'm going to die alone. Some times I hope Trump does nuke the entire world so I don't have to feel the pain of loneliness. All I feel is emptiness inside me. It's like the only "girl" who shows me any sort of I interest is my little kitten lol. Maybe I'm just ment to be alone.

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I've just been popping benzoids to keep me numb from all this. Drugs are the only way to numb the pain

[aslili]

Sorry for your loneliness... @SadpersonT suggested a bright idea. u have to get out of ur comfort zone.. be confident.. talk to girl.. and when u get ignored.. u move to another girl... until u find ur perfect match..
it may also be in the way u chat... u have to show them that they are the ones that need you and not the opposite... chatting relationship dating is all a game.. either u win or lose... So hold the ace and play 😉

[Asker]

Except they all ignore me and why would they need me? I have nothing to offer. I'm not tall or very good looking, I can't play an instrument, I suck at video games, I'm not athletic. The only skill I have is I can cook OK, but I've tried that and it's never worked. Plus I'm. 25 to virgin And no girl wants that pathetic crap

[aslili]

U tried cooking courses? its a good way to meet people... what I meant is that girls gonna ignor.. but then u show them u dnt need them.. and they will ask themselves why u don't insists... So u'll be in power

[aslili]

and dear... u are talking to girls right now 😉 it's a nice beginning

[Asker]

I'm talking girls, because I'm behind a computer and you don't know what i look like

[aslili]

So. . . yeah maybe but then? The girls u meet in ur surroundings they know what u look like.. and I'm virgin to... So its not that bad

[Asker]

You're also only 18 which is completely normal for an 18yo

[aslili]

Okay if u say so... but I bet at 25 I'll still be virgin.

[SadpersonT]

I'm so sorry that you feel lonely. I know there's someone out there for you. You are just still looking for the right one. Go on Craigslist, and look around your community. Find activities in your community that involves interacting with your neighbors, like badminton or community service. Good luck :)

[Asker]

I've tried that but I always just feel disconnect to the group, plus I can't compete with other guys when they're always going to be better looking and cooler than me. I mean if they aren't interested in me online why would they be in irl

[aslili]

find something u like 1st... then u'll find people u like... and perso I believe it's not about beauty.. its all about the +ve vibes and confidence u express while talking to us girls..

[Asker]

@aslili I don't know how to have confidence. Confidence in what? Plus it is about looks. Women don't want ugly weirdos

[aslili]

Well for me.. looks does not matter as long as the guy can show his interest in his eyes.. confidence is difficult to define... but I'd say.. If u love urself then people will love ya.. for me I've got confidence in my ability when I started to do things I'm best at... For me it was taekwondo..

[Asker]

@aslili there's nothing about me to to love. I'm scrawny, short and i have a medicL condition that makes me suck at all athletic things. I've tried many things and I've sucked at all of them

[aslili]

Then what would u advice urself to do?

[Asker]

@aslili swallow a bunch of pills and die. It's not like anyone would care. People wouldn't even noticed I was gone until the neighbors noticed the smell of my rotting corpse

[aslili]

😷😷😷😷 come on.. u know it's not the solution

[Asker]

@aslili it would end the pain of be lonely and depressed. We're all going to die anyways, might as well get it over with. I would seriously do it if I weren't terrified of death

[aslili]

Well its ur sole opinion... think positive it's more attractive !

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