I know where yo' coming from =P.
To answer your question, I know its kinda cliche, but we like both looks and personality.
Looks are definite plus. Without any personality or work at all, with looks alone you should be able to get guys hitting on you in no time. The thing is you'll need personality too keep em' coming back.
For dressing, hate to say it but the curve hugging skin tight stuff is usually the way to go, classic slim fit blue jeans/tee shirt are always in style.
Personality? Doesn't have to be FUNNY (but making him laugh does help, you need to be able to do that now and then, make jokes and stuff) but make sure you smile lots, and a tip is to laugh at all his jokes (if you like him) even if they sound like the corniest things in the world.
So yeah, looks come first, personality second. I'm sure you can get into a relationship on looks alone, but what you'll get out of THAT kind of relationship might not be what you have in mind. Best to have a combination of the two ;).
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To be honest I look for girls who "reciprocate" my attention and who I think I can be friends with easily. When I first meet a girl and start a conversation with her, I try to see if its just me showing an interest (as I am talkative) or if both of us are showing an interest in each other. Because if its just me showing an interest then I know it probably won't get too far, I won't quit on her because it could be just an issue with getting to know me. But in general girls who show an interest in me are girls I prefer to hang out with.
As far as friendship goes, I look for girls who treat the people around them well because how she treats others, not just the guys she likes, is usually indicative of her true character. We can all be nice to our "crushes" but how do we treat are other friends. I try to pay attention to that in a girl. Physically not much, I don't go for super skinny or super big or curvaceous, just a person who looks like they take care of themselves in terms of hygiene, clothing, and health.
Well defined body, so like in shape nice and skinny but curvy. Reasonable sized breast to ass ratio and the bigger the better. It depends, some girls look better with short hair and some with long but I generally prefer long hair. Chatty girls but not so chatty they're stupid.
More importantly than good looks is a good personality, no one wants to have a hot babe who just won't shut up about make-up or something else we don't care about. She has to have a brain, or at least be at the same intelligence level as the guy (or above) and she has to know what's socially appropriate.
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For me it extends far beyond the mere physical appearance(takes deep breath) okay here goes I want a girl who makes everything she wears look amazing and yes toned legs are very sexy as is a flat tummy not a ripped one breast size is not important I'm more of a fan of the shape same goes for a nice booty not huge but nice and round and soft to the touch.Personality wise I like my girl chatty,but won't try to fill silence kissable lips are a plus , I would like every time I see her I fall for over and over again because her smile is so hypnotic I'm compelled to smile myself, and finally she has the ability to turn anything situation until something good or make it fun that's the kind of girl I dream about and the kind of girl I'll someday marry
In general, looks and personality are the main ones. Generally, I like girls with long hair, and height isn't too much of an issue for me with girls.
Shy girls are great, but so are chatty ones; I love an outgoing girl, but I also quite like introverts at the same time.
My dream girl would be a girl who is interested in music, and one who is genuinely able to talk openly to me about the things that she loves. I quite like a girl with some curves, but generally I'm more attracted to slimmer girls. Slim with curves is the most attractive body type to me.
Personality is a huge thing to me; I want a girl that isn't just brainless, and only focused on trivial things. I'd much rather an alright looking girl, who is interesting to talk to, than a 9/10 that is just a boring person.Well first thing is gonna be physical attraction since it it afterall the very first thing you notice about someone. Next I notice if she seems to be looking my way/smiling at me, I'm not the most outgoing person if its someone that I don't know but if she seems interested then I can approach. If she doesn't even notice I exist (as proven by last night), 15 shots of wild turkey isn't even enough to get the liquid courage to make a move.
Now if we do actually start talking I'm gonna find out if your friendly or bitchy. If your nice and we can carry on a conversation then I'll actually get to find out more about you and as for dating I would be looking for someone who is intelligent with a similar sense of humor, bluntly honest, adventurous enough to always be down for doing something new and exciting but also she needs to be responsible. Then once dating we'd also need to be sexually compatible. Sex once a month="this isn't working out".I've met someone who I think would be my dream girl, she's everything I'd want from a girl. She's smart, funny, unique, beautiful, creative, and lots of other things that I really love. The most important thing is she brings a big smile to my face every time I chat with her. I don't really think physical appearances are too important, as long as I'm somewhat attracted to her which I am. A great personality and a wonderful aura are much more important, she's so adorable too, even her laugh and her accent make me melt inside... but yeah that's my dream girl, it will vary with the person but that's just me! :)
In personality, guys just want a girl who is willing to compromise and be a team player but also stick up for herself. A relationship is about working together so petty jealousy and nit picking small things will just chip away at the relationship until nothing is left. Be honest with each other from the start and establish that trust bond. Boobs are nice but even sex won't make a relationship last if you cannot stand someone's personality. Also huge boobs are only nice when a girl is young the bigger they are the more they say with age...
Personality wise? If they're smart, nothing else "matters" as smartness sets in motion all the good personality traits.
Obviously all men are attracted to looks. But if you want a man to think you could be more than a one night stand or a friend with benefits, you definitely have to have some brains as well.My dream girl simply hasn't been found yet. But some personalities/features I like, is a girl who is laid back, isn't snobby and obsessed with everything (over reacting over the small things). A girl who can stick up for herself (but ill always have her back). Smart, clever, and a bit geeky. Not too nice and not completely mean. Some other things could be loyal, a natural mother in her own unique way. I usually tend to like girls with the flat bangs and medium hair, medium height, and not too fat not too skinny although that really doesn't matter. I seem to like plenty of girls without that. And maybe a girl who is into music (rock). Black hair is my favorite colored hair, maybe brown too. And really just someone with a badass personality. Who knows you have one life so be yourself and enjoy what you want to enjoy in the best way possible. :)
Well in that case I don't know what kind of majority answer you'd get then as far as physically from most guys. Me personally as far as physically just so long she's not overly fat or anorexic then it's based on a combination of features. A nice ass isn't what I really look for or huge boobs. It all depends on the girl. I like any or most styles. The most important thing would be if she could tolerate my personality, because I can't and/or won't change that.
Every time a guy marries an ugly girl, the first piece of advice he gives to single guys is "don't ever marry an ugly girl".
I like girly girls, not tomboys. Tomboys are gross.
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Same shit that everybody looks for I supposePerfect legs = my avatar. Bar Rafaeli has a great body and face and hair, infact she's near perfect.
Long hair most the time unless short hair suits the girl. I prefer chatty girls since means I do less work thinking of things to say. But shy girls work too.Depends on the guy. We all have different interests, and some are more deviant-like than others.
Personally: I like a girl who can take care of herself. (Responsible and hard working.) I'm a nerd, and I'm aiming for that power couple lifestyle where we become Tony Stark and Pepper Potts combo but its us and better than them.
That's long term tho. I don't really have much of a short term game. Just focusing on studies right now to make that Tony Stark part a reality.I like girl's that are nice. That want to spend time with me. That wants most of the same things I do. That loves me for me. A lot of girls are gold diggers. But some aren't. I want to find a good girl. One that believes in love, instead of one that is out for the money.
Authenticity and standards low enough to date me lol. I like people who aren't afraid to be who they are, embrace their weirdness and quirks and stuff. I don't really have a set list of what else I look for, I just want a person to be who they are rather than try to be someone else they think others might like more.
I want her to be able to make me laugh legitimately. I would like someone that I can have a good time with, who shares some of my interests, but not all, and who wants to share her interests with me. I just want someone around that I could share ¨life¨ with.
I personally don't like short hair. I never really understood the whole long legs thing. Personally I have a mild preference for tall girls, I think that's because I'm tall myself though. As long as the girl isn't overweight and healthy that hits my high points for a girls looks. Honestly I look for the personality and virtues more than most other things.
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1) Down to earth. She treats everyone the way she would want to be treated, not just me or attractive people
2) Has a sense of humor. Most guys are funny so there is no need for the girl to be funny. She only needs to be a recipient of humor and appreciate it
3) Loyalty. Kind of obvious but is the most important oneI know some girls that are gorgeous to look it. But I would probably kill myself if I was with them. Just horrible personalities, everything is about them, very whiney and bratty. I want a girl who is sweet, nice, kind, respectful and hopefully her hair, body, eyes is kept nice.
Well every guy will have a different dream girl. For example I've always liked really delicate and skinny girls. I know most guys like thick girls but I honestly don't like them much.
For me my dream girl was smart, feminine and have similar sense of humor than mine.
I never thought I'd meet her but I did at my age 😅My dream girl thinks I'm her dream guy too. She loves me and is loyal. I can trust her as well as be trusted by her. The physical is also important but what that means is that she needs to look beautiful in my eyes. Not morbidly obese but not anorexic either. No midgets but I'm six two so is not very often I find one taller than me. Hair is unimportant. Shaved peach and clean body are my only real requirements there.
A good sense or right and wrong, a good sense of humor, intelligence, caring about others, empathetic, warm and friendly, smiles, and a nice body helps. If the personality is there, and she smiles, then it's easy to like her body as well.
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