For anorexic I mean bones showing and everything.
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After dating an anorexic for 3 months, I would recommend NEVER dating them. go for the normal girl.
Let me justify this:
-She had so so many secrets, which she thought she did a good job of hiding from me, but one wondered why a girl texts lovely messages but then didn't want to see/spend time with you.
-She liked flirting with me but wouldn't sleep with me because of her own terrible body image.
-I wanted to spend time with her, but she always curtailed any time with excuses to dash home.
-she drank lots of coffee as part of her control, and this meant her sleeping habits, combined with her general lack of energy from not eating, were terrible - she would regularly appear like she was on drugs.
-so you end up trying to fit around her "comfort bubble" which is so restrictive that it doesn't feel like a relationship at all.
-oh, and don't forget you certainly can't "wine and dine" the lady as she doesn't want to be seen in public eating, never mind being unable to find anything on any menu she is prepared to eat. and you can't go for drinks as she can barely touch a drop of alcohol as she is so terribly underweight.
-they turn your affection into worry and concern.
All in all it is a horrible disease that permeates throughtout their whole life including anyone they come into contact with.
so to answer the question above:
date the normal plus size girl as the other option is just not worth your time, trust me.