So we went out on a date. Actually we made last minute plans, and when he asked me if he would consider it a date, I said yes.
He was very sweet, took the check, despite that I wanted to take it :(
said I looked dashing. made a lot of nice compliments. The chemistry was great. We connected a lot, unlike any other date.
to keep it short it was great! we both felt something, he seemed very into it, and such.
said he was glad we met, and that he wanted to take me out on a second date.
He texted me back later that night, and said he would text me in sometime soon.
The date was this past Monday, and I still have not gotten back a text. I sent him 2 during the week, and nothing.
Maybe he needs time? I will wait of course, but I just hope he is still interested, because I really do like the idea of me being in a relationship with him if it can work.
Any ideas on why he hasn't contacted me yet?
like I said the date was great, I just don't understand what is going on :(
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He probably feels pressure because you have texted him, after he told you that he was going to text you. Don't worry, just give him some space. If he truly wants that second date, he will make sure he gets it :) So don't worry. In the meantime, enjoy yourself. Don't worry too much about his decision. If he never gets back to you, then leave it at that. Sometimes people just lose interest for no apparent reason. It isn't your fault if he loses interest. Sometimes guys just do. But you still have time to date other people and see what else is out there, stay positive :)0