You are in that position by what your saying, but the fact he doesn't call you his girlfriend doesn't mean your not. I understand why it kinda hurts, or makes you feel strung along. Its probably that he doesn't want to string you along is why he doesn't call you his GF. It's a form of comittment. He may be afraid to make any comitments. He may be into "buddy's with benifits"...which is a decision you will have to make if you don't want to be someone's bud. Sounds like he's not ready to comitt with one girl (you), some guys don't because if he runs into another girl that he might want to get to know , then rightfully, he cannot approach her becasue he is in a relationship and has a "girlfriend". If you are just a bud, he doesn't feel he's tied to anyone and it free's him up to other women.
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why don't you ask him to be your bf? why do you have to wait for him to ask?
maybe I can give you some insight. When I have relationships I never refer to girls as my gf.
They may be very similar to a girlfriend. Monogomy, dates, sex etc. but its just not the way I talk.
I would introduce them as my friend.
There are some people that refer to thier special lady friend as
"my old lady"
"my boo"
"my chick"
" my girl"
And a hundred others. They all mean the same thing. Only difference is how the person speaks.
he could be going through something that you don't understand, give him a little more time maybe 3 months if he still won't call you his girlfriend id suggest distancing yourself
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