I just broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago. Things weren't working out, hasn't been for a long time. There's this other guy, he has waited for me about 4 years now. I just found out about it. I like him a lot, but I don't want him to be the rebound guy !?! If there's such a thing ? I don't want him to get hurt. What should I do ?
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Go for it. You mention he term "rebound guys" as if he has to be a fling or something. That's completely untrue; you and him can make it into much more then just a rebound. If he is a good quality guy the by all means go for it. If he has liked you for 4 years than you can clearly tell you has quite a thing for you.
My girlfriend was heart broken when I met her and we started dating a week after that. We've been together for 3 months now and I can honestly say it is a quality and meaningful relationship. I am by no means her "rebound"
This is a chance. Go for it. Make something out of it. He won't hurt you if he has liked you for such a long time and would certainly not want to ruin it.0