Here's a interesting question. If a guy is friends with a woman is there a such thing as hanging out too much?
A example like maybe 3-4 times a week. And maybe 1/2 of the time she let's me pick her up. Try to follow my situation here.
She's seeing a guy,but the says isn't quite sure if it'd work out with my f/friend and him. Than theirs another guy she likes but she's afraid to get into a relationship with him.
Than there's poor old me,we seem to hang out a lot. Like my f/friend and I went to a buddies house to watch the Super Bowl. And she saw some movies she wanted to see. And hinted she wanted to see certain ones. I guess some with me and some with the other guy.
And she's always saying how people think we are a couple. And always brings up how we talk on the phone and I put her to sleep. And not a 1st she's questioned or doubted I want to be more than friends with her.
She likes to give me a hard time about my experience with women. About the only advice she gives me about women is to take chances.
But what's happend to getting to know a woman?
Did I mention it's like we have to chat 1-2 everyday. And she says we are like in the movie when Harry met Sally. Is this all a sign she likes me? And is afraid to let me go? And yes when I talk to her on the phone we are just friends. She waits on the average of 15-30 sec. To say we're friends
rarely is right away
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It sounds to me like she's kind of just stringing you along here... Keeping you just interested enough to stick around, but too confused to initiate anything. I think you should ask her directly whether she likes you or not, because these situations get sticky really quickly. Some people just like to keep people in the sidelines and their backup plans, in case things don't work out in the relationships they're in (as terrible as that sounds, I've seen it happen around me many a times). If her answer if that she doesn't, I think you really should just try and keep your emotions from developing for her to avoid unnecessary conflict of interests.3