Why don't girls talk to me?

I'm 16 years old who is too shy to talk to girls so I hope they talk to me but nothing happen yet. I feel like that girls won't come over talk to me for some reason. I feel like I'm not good looking or something. I play football and I'm one of best on the team. So I thought at least a girl would talk to me but still nothing happen. I don't get it why won't any girls talk to me to get to know me?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Firstly, DON'T depend on sports for girls. Sure we look for muscle but not a complete jerk. And, if you're shy, you need to find a girl friend. Not a girlfriend but a girl (space) friend. Just a girl you can trust. Eventutally you'll start to get closer. Or you'll meet one of her friends. And is it the kimd of shy lik, you see a cute girl and then get all to shy to talk to her? If so, become more confident. Girls look for confident people. Become secure about yourself.

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What Girls Said 1

  • Well here's the thing, girls are shy too. They're probably wondering the same thing. You could be the best looking guy out there but quite a few girls don't really start feeling confident about themselves until they're pretty much adults.

    I honestly can't think of a time that I was the one to approach a guy first when I was younger because I was just too shy. I can tell you right now, if you want to chat talk to girls and get to know them, just take a deep breath and try saying hi to one. All you can do is put yourself out there and hope she does too. It's intimidating, yes, but it just takes a few words to start a conversation.

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What Guys Said 4

  • i always had this problem too... its like some disease disorder or something...until I found out that I'm ugly ... there's really nothing you can do about it ... plus girls are different than us guys we guys want girls but girls are opposite girls don't want guys ...i know it really sucks and makes life more lonely and depressing ... just save up your money and buy a sex toy and buy lots of adult mags and maybe buy a hooker ... don't listen to what girls say what to do on here they will just piss you off more especially with that confidence thing it too doesn't work ... just wait untill a girl wants you...you might get lucky ... your doing the right thing because society tells girls that guys are soppost to pursue a girl and its a big lie ... girls are the ones who are soppost to make the first moves etc and ask the guy ... due to how overly picky girls are ... just try to hang in there

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  • You need to go talk to the girls. They aren't usually theconversation starters at our age lol. You should just try putting yourself out there more and making yourself better known. It working whenever I moved and didn't know anybody. Just gotta go out on a limb sometimes, and if a girl or two doesn't like you, well then f*** 'em haha. Good luck bro

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  • Girls hardly ever talk to the guys they like. And most girls have a preference for the confident guys not the shy guys.

    So even amongst the minority of girls who like shy guys... they STILL won't make the first move and approach them.

    That's basically the reason.

    A lot of young guys make the same mistake you did, and think if they do "x" then the girls will come. But they don't. And then those guys get angry and bitter.

    Pay attention to this. Work on your confidence, get over your shyness, and start approaching the girls you like. It's the only way.

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  • Get tons of money first and act indifferent to women. Give them backhanded compliments.

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