Girls like guys who doesn't give them full attention

true or false ?

girls go crazy for guys who doesn't give them their full attention

guys who doesn't notice them , or guys doesn't text back or call them everyday in the beginning of a relationship

is it true ?


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  • It's funny the girls are saying false. OK look at this scenario please before saying "not true" or false". There are 2 guys, both equally good looking and you like them both. Lets call the first guy Tom and the second Brad for arguments sake. Tom is Mr Nice, he will text first, he will reply back within minutes and is quick to arrange a date to meet up. Brad is also nice but a bit more distant. When a girl texts Brad he won't reply back straight away. Brad sometimes doesn't reply back to a girl until the next day. Brad may also say "sorry I can't do this day but I'll contact you to arrange another". Now the girls here are all saying they would prefer Tom but after a little while they will get bored of him. Tom is too available, Tom doesn't stimulate the female brain as he is quick and will always cave in quickly. Brad on the other hand will leave the girls thinking "why hasn't he replied back". Or "What he's too busy for me?". This in turn leaves them curious and wondering why he is behaving like this to them. The female mind is a very curious thing and it likes to be stimulated, what Brad is doing is he leaving them thinking. Which in turn makes them think about Brad more. Which in turn means Brad is less likely to bore them.

    You girls may disagree but be 100% honest here. Brad is more likely to appeal in the long run as he is more likely to make you think than Tom.

    ps Don't think of Brad Pitt and Tom Cruise, these are just names that popped in my head!

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    • This certainly isn't a good versus bad thing or a nice vs not nice thing. To interest another person (especially the opposite gender) you must have a certain way (that grabs interest) of doing things. You can't come off as too needy of a person or people typically loose interest.

What Girls Said 15

  • Human nature naturally causes us to want something more when it's elusive or forbidden. It's our desire to be accepted by any means by anyone. It doesn't just happen with girls, guys get caught in this trap too, and the more insecure you are as individual, the more you are likely to fall for someone like that.

    It's a power trip and if you understand human nature and understand someone's motivation, you can use this kind of tactic to manipulate almost anyone.

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  • Yes, it's usually true.

    Don't give her your attention all the time. It makes her want you more.

    I wouldn't say it's 'playing games' per se. Too much attention, she'll move on.. Not enough attention, she'll move on. Gotta balance it out.

    You need to PAY attention not give out attention. You know?

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  • 1. It depends on the person.

    2. In a way it is true but only in the sense that they don't want you to be to clingy.

    hope this helps... ask if you have any more questions

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    • oh and also some girls like a challenge instead of a straight-up nice guy. Why you ask? because it gives the illusion of a dark brooding bad boy ... lol like Damon's Vampire Diaries.

  • Yeah, in a way. Your not giving her the ordinary (something she's used to.) In a way girls too, like to chase because its a challenge..!

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  • SO TRUE

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  • False. With me that is lol I have friends that go crazy then they get stupid

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  • No we def want attention. But then again, you can give us too much attention and come off as clingy, and that's when we like a guy with a little more mystery.

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  • False it just makes me annoyed with the guy, I might find him attractive but I will be completely put off to be in a relationship with him. But with most girls play hot and cold and she will come running.

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  • Not really. I mean if you guys talk everyday usually then yeah she will wonder 5 hours later if you haven't texted her back but most will relax if they know you have something to do.Depends on the girl!

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  • It's true most of time. If the guy really is worth it then OK but if he's an ass*hole I don't understand it. I'd chase a guy who doesn't spend all his attention on me only if he's handsome, smart and funny, otherwise I'd dump him.

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  • Depends upon the person!

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  • It's annoying when a dude texts you constantly, and equally annoying when he plays games.

    Like if you have your phone sitting next to you and you're not doing anything, just reply.. playing games and waiting a certain time limit to text back is immature anyways.

    If you're genuinely busy, go about your normal life, and text when you're free without playing games it's a turn on.

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  • 100% False.

    Most women spend their time on a guy that seems interested in her as well. When he decides to go AWOL after he shows interest, we start going crazy.

    Personally I'd rather avoid drama in a relationship but that isn't always possible.

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  • I on the other hand like my space to much so a guy that calls texts everyday would get on my nerves I found it clingy unless a girl is married to a guy she don't have the right to no everything he does in a day just sayin that just me

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  • False, If I didn't get full attention from a guy I'm dating He would be kicked to the curve so quickly.

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    • Overly attached girlfriend...

    • You must didn't read the question, It stated Girls like guys who doesn't give them full attention and he doesn't notice them. Why would I want to be with a guy who don't notice me. Now regarding my man around me 24 7 no that's not me at all, I'm too busy for that. Because my man wants to spend more time with me but I just got one degree and working on another , And I'm always busy and on the go . So your're totally wrong about me and I been with my man for years.

What Guys Said 7

  • True.

    Women want attention.

    They want it from a a busy important man.

    They want to feel like they carved attention out of his busy exciting life because they're so awesome, not that they have 100% of the attention of a sad loser with nothing else to do.

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  • As Pushkin, a major Russian poet had said, with a sense of irony,

    "The less we love a woman,

    The more she's into us"

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  • Most girls will always tell you that they like nice guys who give them lots of attention.

    It's quite the opposite though, women can't help feel attracted to things they can't have... this is at a subconscious level though.

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  • True.

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  • Yes,...

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  • yeah, pisses me off

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  • yeah, women sound cruel like this

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