So this girl and I started talking but I'm having trouble telling if she's interested or playing games or just being friendly. She never initiates contact. When I contact her she seems generally happy to talk to me and when we text she's usually very prompt with her responses and in no way ever seems to be ignoring me and when she has to go or is busy I get a ttyl and she'll typically pick up the conversation and hour or two later. So she has plenty of opportunity to blow me off if she doesn't like me but she never does. Can someone give me some insight into her behavior?
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You know there's a thing about girl, is we usually don't text right away cause we're afraid we're gonna look too needy or "desperate".
We're like " if I answer his text right now, he'll know I waited for his text for so long, and I didn't have anything else to do beside waiting near my phone. Most of the time those aren't true but we are into the guy and although our heart tells us "go, tell him" our brain tells us " get a grip girl, slow down, remember last time"
Ghe thing is you're wondering if she's playing and she's wondering the same about you, so try to initiate more, or to be less friendly and more flirty.1