Basically I just finished going on second date with a girl I really like. I picked her up, We went mini-golfing and then went to dinner.
Afterwards, I drove her back home, I walked her to her door, and gave her a hug goodnight.
But as we're letting go, our eyes meet, I see that she has a very interesting look on her face, and she leans in to kiss me.
It was very short, just a quick touch of our lips, and then I turned around and left.
Now that I look back on it, I feel so stupid. I feel like I should of kissed her more, or made more of an effort. I think the fact the she kissed me first shocked me so I didn't know how to react, so I just turned around a left.
There is also the fact that I was so hesitant to kiss her first for fear of rejection that she decided to kiss me first, so now she probably thinks I'm lame. FYI I didn't attempt to kiss her on the first date, I just gave her a hug goodnight.
Did I make a huge mistake? and will she not want to see me after this?
"I had a wonderful time too :)"
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Honestly yes, a first kiss is like a first impression of how strong the attraction between us is. It would be a big turn off that the kiss didn't go so well but nothing impossible for the guy to recover from.
I suggest next time you take the lead and show her just how much she attracts you.0