He asked me if I get hit on a lot?

[Anonymous]

So I went out on a date with a guy I met and he said "you must get hit on a lot." I know its a compliment but do guys mean it when they say this?

[uhaveatextmessage]

It could just be a ploy to get into your pants, however, yes, most of the time, we mean what we say...It'd help to see you, to see if we think the same

[Asker]

if he wanted to get in my pants he would have asked me to his place the last 5 dates. Instead he plans fun activities to do.

[uhaveatextmessage]

Don't you think that's the idea of dating...to get into their pants. Relationships without sex, is well...a friendship gone awry

[Anonymous]

Yes, he does mean it. I've only said this to a girl who I knew was beautiful.

[Anonymous]

If I said that, I would mean it. I'd say he really thinks you're beautiful.