Where should I go to find conservative girls?

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I live in a very very liberal place, which seems to make it nearly impossible to find any conservative girls.

I'm looking for a girl who doesn't believe in living together or having sex before marriage (or at the very minimum would never hook-up with random guys), has a clean lifestyle (no drugs), and doesn't drink too much. At the same time, I'd like it if the girl was college-educated (or pursuing college) and also has ambitions in life.

Any thoughts where I might look to find single girls who are more conservative? I'm pretty much guessing that bars and clubs aren't the right places to look, but my dating pool is pretty bleak and I don't really have any good leads. If you were a conservative girl living in an area more liberal than San Francisco, where would you be hiding?

roughedges · Accepted Answer

I read the ladys' comments. The majority said the library.
What?
What would make them think that the library is a hangout for conservative women? Are the commenters liberal, think the library is boring, and think that only boring conservatives hang out there?
The last time I looked, educated people who are more likely to have been successfully indoctrinated by the socialist system, are the ones more likely to regularly read books with substance due to their continuing thirst for knowledge. Therefore, although there may be some conservative gals perusing the aisles at the public library, a guy won't have any better chance of meeting a 'righty' than a 'lefty'... most likely the the latter.
Uneducated women (also liberal) tend to read books that are more shallow like paperback romance novels that can be purchased near the checkout at a supermarket or one of the 'Marts'.
Forget the librarians! Most are now feminists.
Bookstores are out as well.

thtdiablo · Accepted Answer

May I ask the region you live? Is it withing the US or in Europe?

It was very hard for me too. The biggest chance you have in evangelical congregations or the catholic church (which denomination are you from?).

I myself found the right woman when I was in Asia. Especially in Chinese and Korean Christian families these values you mentioned are held in high esteem.

It's hard to give you a specific place where to search but I'm sure that there are still good girls out there - and their number is growing again! The younger generation (at least here in Southern Germany and Switzerland) is rather conservative.

Keep searching, you'll meet the right one :)

RowMar · Accepted Answer

You know I am that conservative type of woman too who doesn't believe in living together or having sex before marriage and would never hook-up with random guys and has a clean lifestyle with no drugs and doesn't drink too much. I have a Bachelor's Degree and some units in Masters.

I get hit by a lot of guys but I always end up turning them down because I am looking for a conservative type of guy. Sometimes they even retaliate when I turn them down. I feel almost every guy are just so immature and shallow expecting me to sleep with them.

I live in the East Bay and find it hard too to find a conservative guy. Have gone out with friends in bars and has never met anyone there as almost everyone drinks and are party animals.

I know it is tough. Until now I am still single and have not found Mr. Right.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

This describes me perfectly (but I'm not Christian) and where I live it's really liberal as well. So the kind of places someone would find me would definitely be in a bookstore, coffee shop, library if I were studying or just looking around for books. I do a lot of volunteering so maybe places like animal or homeless shelters or even charity organizations are things you could get yourself into. You could also try parks, maybe. But keep in mind that there are also tons of places (like the mall, movies, music events, festivals, etc) that conservative girls will also go to just like liberal girls, since we are still girls after all. So wherever you go, just keep an open mind.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I find this odd because I feel the same way, there is no conservative man or people where I'm from. I can't relate to must of my friends because of my old fashion ways and I'm only 21 :P You should try the library, coffee shop, church, the park reading a book, I don't know this are the places I would be.

xX_Lucas_Xx · Answer

I live in Austin and am 19, so I have the same problem. I've seen other people on here say stuff along the lines of "your standards are too high," but honestly, those are all moral issues, and if you aren't on the same page morally, it won't work out, I know from experience. What I'm doing to resolve my issue is I'm taking some horticulture courses at the local college, thinking about attending some local libertarian events, and I regularly check out local book stores. I generally won't do anything that will leave me going home entirely empty handed if I don't find a girl. for example, the courses give me some leverage for a raise at work, the libertarian events will keep me involved, and I always come home with a cool book when I go to the store. But yeah, book stores are mostly liberal/leftist, but at least it's a place a conservative might show up. I also saw someone suggest the gun range, which would be great, but for under 21s it can be pretty legally limiting. the main thing to remember is keep your dignity and don't let this shit control your life.

udolipixie · Answer

Where should I go to find conservative girls?

Likely the same places you go as you're conservative or an online dating site.

If you were a conservative girl living in an area more liberal than San Francisco, where would you be hiding?

Probably at school, work, or church.

pips1 · Answer

The UK lol I do some of those things, but I am not boring I don't find your going to find a girl like that to be honest Unless they are well very religious and don't believe in sex before marriage etc. .

Searching4the1 · Answer

My number 1 guess would be coffee shops. Try to find those little family run ones with the signs that say “All I need is Coffee and Jesus”. lol My second guess would be a For King and Country and or Hillsong or Maverick City Concert! 😍 Good artists that attract good people. If you don’t find the girl at least you got to see a show…🙃

rockcandy · Answer

The gun range! Or church. Or a political rally.  Those are my best guesses.  If I brainstorm anymore I'll post.

TheStaff_Sergeant · Answer

Trendy bars(some good girls do dance you know), book stores, coffee houses, aerobic classes, and college libraries.

kmhco · Answer

I would go to a church if I was looking for those qualities in someone.

_Lisa_ · Answer

Conservative girls (men also) are almost extinct. Demoralization, demoralization everywhere.

Anonymous · Answer

You might have to resort to dating websites. Maybe hit up some churches if you're a religious guy. Network, ask around through friends.

Anonymous · Answer

lol I would also like to have a girl that doesn't have sex with random people. Doesn't seem to be that many out there even in 'conservative' areas.

Anonymous · Answer

Weren't around like everyone else usually with a bunch of friends or family

crazybastard · Answer

why don't you try looking for her in your dreams? come on man we all want our perfect woman but do you really think you can find one that has all the qualities that YOU want her to have.

Snock · Answer

The gym? But only if they aren’t recording themselves.

Anonymous · Answer

There's a difference from us from shy gas ya know so we don't only go to the library like anyone givien your age she's probably going to school maybe college?

Anonymous · Answer

that's me! look for me :)

oldlady · Answer

Work for a conservative political campaign?

LonelyandInTheDark · Answer

Sunday morning bible studies.

Burnette01 · Answer

the library..

aribt3266 · Answer

country music concerts

scorpiongirl · Answer

Church

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