This girl I have been seeing has told me she is very stressed out with work, school and everything. The problem though is we just got into an argument and I don't want to overwhelm her by keep asking how everything is. We have only been together a month and sometimes when I text her she doesn't respond and when I asked about hanging out she didn't respond. Although we have talked it seems everything is bugging her. I've tried joking around and she is not into it. I don't want to annoy her during this time but I also don't want to make it seem like I don't care. What should I do? I was thinking of giving it a couple days and then talking again?
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send her a little gift tomorrow. flowers, but nothing extravagant. send 'em to her work, so she'll get the flowers at work. hand write a little note, explaining that you like her and you're sorry she's so stressed, and you hope this little gift lifts her spirits.
don't offer advice unless she specifically asks for advice. this means you don't say much other than, "I'm sorry you're so stressed. That must feel terrible. Let me know if I can help." let her do most of the talking.