So there are these guys that I have in my life. At first, they seemed like chill nice guys, then after a while, they showed who they really were. And I can't be friends with them really because it's just not me like the hangouts consist of smoking, watching music videos, them talking bad about others, smoking more, admiring each other smoking, and watching videos of people smoking. I don't want to straight up tell them that I am done hanging out with them because if someone says something that they don't like or doesn't work in their favor, they say they'll fight the person talking or something, but they never do fight. But it still stresses me out, though, because I don't like violence or negative feelings/emotions thrown at me because I rather have the majority of people be ok with me. I work with them, so do I block them, do I tell them directly, or what should I do? and when I am stressed by them, how should I handle it?
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Thank you! So, the other day one of the guys was at my job and I was cashiering and checking out a customer. The guy was just saying random insults and being a jerk so I just ignored him and didn't even acknowledge it. Luckily the customer knows who I am and knows none of the things he was saying was true. But after a while he left because I was on my phone ignoring everything he said. The group tried to call me today but I didn't answer, I felt if I answered it would only continue
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But my plan is to just ignore them all or give really really short answers to anything they say because no matter any threat they make or whatever. they won't do anything and I'm going to be gone from the job soon since I put my 2 weeks in not just due to them but because the new job is higher pay.
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How old are you? Perhaps, a counselor in high school or college can help you effectively navigate this. I may be wrong but I doubt anyone on this website has a solution that I would trust. I get your feelings and fears but no idea how to fix 🤷🏻♂️.
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drift away slowly, if you dont want the hassle of confrontation, just hang out less and less and gradually put some distance between yourselves, for sure they WILL talk shit about you behind your back but in the long run thats a tiny price to pay
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