there's no such thing as a girl who does or doesn't date black guys. I'd only ever dated white guys until I met my current boyfriend, who is black, and I was instantly attracted to him.
i never considered myself as someone who did or did not date black men before, even though I never had. I just date whoever I want, which hasn't often happened to be black men. but my current boyfriend is black and I'm the happiest I've ever been.
so just because she hasn't dated black guys before, doesn't really mean anything. don't read too much into it and just be yourself and if she's attracted to you she's attracted to you!
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You really can't tell since it varies from person to person so much. For some girls it doesn't matter what type of guy it is, others just aren't attracted to specific types. You can't approach her with race in mind though, that will kill any chances you have right there. For example, in general I've noticed I'm not usually attracted to black guys, don't know why since race doesn't really matter to me and I'm into Asians for instance, but every once in a while I encounter an individual who charms me with their personality. There's no trick to it really, your chemistry just needs to match.
Never ask a girl "do you date black guys". I think all girls dislike being asked this. Also, don't really trust what another guy tells you about a girl. He sees you as competition.Think about it...she doesn't like black guys, yet your black friend is wasting all this time talking to her for no reason? Hmmmmmmm interesante` You need to forget about the racial barrier and go for her like you'd go for anyone else.
Don't worry about whether or not she dates black guys. If you want to try dating her, get her number so you can hang out outside of work if she's willing to do so.
The point here is that you TRY. Give yourself a shot. Don't get jealous over the fact that she's talking to the other black guy. For all we know, this other black guy could be lying to you about that statement because he's inadvertently trying to c0ck-block you so he can get her.
Do what you want to do and don't let anything bother you about it.
attraction isn't a choice so, don't stress yourelf off of something you have no control over. If you like her then make your move. don't be afraid to hear no. everybody has heard it before. if any one tell you they didn't then they are lying. so man up
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Dont bring attention to it, the more attention you bring to that situation, the more it will be prevalent. I honestly don't think it matters at all. You can capture her heart if you can show her what a great guy you are. For example, I used to put certain standards on guys I would date; like they couldn't be shorter than me...until I met this guy who was so genuinely nice and such a gentleman to me that him being shorter than me didn't even cross my mind or bother me. I ended up really liking him and I didn't care if he was short or tall. Now I don't put standards on guys I would date. Show that girl who you are! Good luck!
If she really likes you it won't matter to her if you are black.
If she doesn't really like you then maybe the blackness will be an excuse for not dating you.
Forget everything your guy friend is saying. He is trying to psyche you out man.your over thinking it, white girls perfer black guys anyway
I think that guy is probably full of sh*t.
There isn't really a way.the only way you could tell is if maybe she had a queen of spades tattoo. besides that, not many.
She's usually white, chubby, and feels rejected by white men yet feeds off of the attention self-hating black men may give her.
Usually you will see me staring or taking a double take.
Stop talking to white girls.
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