So I recently met this really nice guy in my college psych class. We went on a few dates and he's really chivalrous and a great person in general. He's also in ROTC. when I mentioned that to a few of my friends, they kind of acted like it was a bad thing. Is there a negative connotation with being in ROTC that I'm unaware of? He tells me about how it helps bring discipline to his life and I'd rather be with a disciplined and principled guy than with the average dude.
Dating an ROTC guy: a good or bad idea?
What Guys Said 5
Think about it, he wants to be a man the correct way. He wants something out of life. If you don't want him a woman in a foreign land will see his alliance for what it is.
being a ROTC member doesn't mean anything lol their personality is self made and nobody should judge a group of people just because of a few bad people0
Don't listen to the people saying that his military background and "overly-disciplined mind" are going to one day backfire on you. Just being in the ROTC does not mean that he'll eventually become disrespectful. If he does, it could be due to a number of reasons. But either way, if you can tell that he's a genuinely nice guy, and he continues to be nothing but, I say go for it.0
There's nothing wrong with ROTC at all, its simply what he's stated to you nothing more. Though I guess the negativity your hear about it come from bitter men who have been cheated on in the millitary.0
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