I'm on the overweight side and I'm really self conscious about it because I have been rejected by quite a few guys but the thing is, since usually...
I'm on the overweight side and I'm really self conscious about it because I have been rejected by quite a few guys but the thing is, since usually teenage boys go through puberty, do they always think that skinny girls are pretty? Or do they think that overweight girls are pretty too, and would you date one? I just want to know how many teen guys out there actually would...
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No, most guys don't want super skinny girls. We want girls who are average or slender, but not overweight or full of bones. If you're overweight, most guys won't want you past casual sex. That's the brutal truth of the matter. Guys feel embarrassed to show off an overweight girlfriend, as most of us prefer slender or average (normal, not super skinny or overweight) girls to one who has extra pounds. It is similar to the way that girls almost universally prefer tall guys.
Yes, if you loose the weight, you'll expand your options quite a bit. The harsh reality is that guys who date overweight girls are generally guys that don't have any other options. You don't want to be someone's desperation option, do you? Instead, for your health, and for your love live, I suggest you focus on losing the weight instead of trying to find guys that will most likely try to use you and lose you after they lose attraction later.
I'm not a guy, nor a teen. But I do feel that showing confidence has quite a lot to do with it. I don't feel girls with size 0 are attractive. Just be confident with who you are, and feel good about yourself.