Long-distance relationships are difficult to maintain as it is. If either person isn't willing to put in effort, it is not going to work out. So if he isn't even putting a couple minutes of work into it a day, it shows that he has prioritized the relationship low on his list. When people are in relationships, they deserve someone who cares about them and will work a bit for them. Otherwise, you are probably going to excessively stressed for something that isn't worth the stress.
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How about, "It's fine, I understand. Give me a call tomorrow so that you'll compensate for it . :) "
move on. you guys are not dating. if he likes you cares you, he would text you every day or every otherday.. at least he wouldn't ignore your texts and leave you wondering for couple of weeks. he can be real busy but not getting back to you for couple weeks is a def sign he's not that into you. unless you guys are girlfriend/boyfriend relationship, just leave it like that don't bother working on him. make him work on you
You shouldn't make him a priority if you're only an option. It's not hard to send texts every few days, it's not that he can't he just doesn't care enough to do it. You're not as important to him as you think you are. His actions are telling you everything. It's OK if he's busy, you should be busy too and see other guys.
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you're in a codependent situation and he is not in a codependent situation. he is grown up and you are not grown up. quit texting altogether. learn to be quiet and breathe.
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