I met this great guy on a dating website and we have been on 3 dates. All of them went for hours and went great, both some day activities and dinners, we make each other laugh, talk about work, friends, hobbies, etc. We text each other every day, some days he initiates the conversation, some days I do. He is a busy man and lives a bit far, so it is not easy to meet up. After every date he said he wanted to meet up again. However, he never flirts with me and has not tried to kiss me. The last two "dates" ended up with a hug and a kiss on a cheek. The last time when saying goodbye, I initiated the kiss and wanted to see if he was going to give me his lips or a cheek, and he went for the cheek. I felt like he paused right after the kiss and maybe wanted to lean forward again, but he didn't, so I guess that was only my imagination. But I did feel like it got kind of awkward, as when you are not sure... We never talked about our previous relationships, that dating topic has not been brought up, which is odd since we met on a dating website. My worry is that he might be interested in a friendship only, but why would he make the trips to see me and insist on paying for everything? Oh, and on our second date he introduced me to some of his friend and a family member. He is a complete gentleman, holding the door and everything, but after 3 dates I would expect a kiss from a 30 year old man. He seem outgoing, has a lot of friends and does not seem shy. I am clueless as to whether he likes me or not. Other guys always say things like: You look very nice today, but he hasn't said anything like that, hasn't given me any hint =( Am I in the friend zone?
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Maybe he is very shy when it comes to that part. I am pretty much the same way with every girl I dated, the dates would go fine then when the oppertunity to kiss came I got nervous and couldn't. I would always get a 2nd or 3rd date so I know they didn't dislike me but for what ever reason I couldn't make a move :P.0