My boyfriend and I are both in our first year of collage. We have known each other since high school and he asked me out the beginning of this school year. 3 nights ago we were both a bit drunk and started talking about my family. I was telling about my little sister when he blurted out she was a slut. I was so taken back by that and so I just slapped him as hard as I could. I mean I know I shouldn't have done that but I was just so mad. She is only a junior and has probably slept with more guys then I have but still he shouldn't have said that. I think he just shrugged it off but we kept talking and he proceeded to say that she gets it from my mom because my moms divorced and has had 3 boyfriends. I was literally so mad that I got up and was about to walk away when he grabbed me and said "I was just kidding babe calm down. ok? " With that I punched him in the really hard stomach and he slapped me. Not very hard but still he slapped me. I just ran away so stunned and drunk and i was crying. The next day he called me and came to my dorm and brought me flowers and said it was just a reflex and he would never hurt me. He said that he barley even hit me and that he was drunk and he promise he won't ever do it again. He has been coming every day and checking on me and hugging me but I don't know if I want to get back with him. Should I?
And for weeks after the problem he would kiss my cheek that he hit and kept apologizing. He realizes that he did wrong so maybe some of you should too.