An alpha male Canadian Tundra wolf and I bonded as brothers about a decade ago. I loved him so much I quit doing drugs, and hanging out with thugs, selling drugs. Nothing could reach me, not man, nor woman, but he did. So yeah it can exist without being sexual. I am sure it can exist between two people as well. But you must be in control of your faculties. That is a rare thing these days.
No, I don't think so. And there's nothing wrong with that, either.
I do think that the physical aspects are exaggerated, though. I'm a highly sexual person too, but sometimes it can get a little tiring that things are always about hotness and sex, sex, sex!!!
To be honest I don't really know, I haven't met anyone who I have truly been in love with so it's hard to say. But I can say this that I have meet guys who I didn't find attractive in the beginning but later then got more attractive as I got them to know. This however always just resulted in friendship (since I didn't feel like kissing them or anything else). So if I absolutely had to answer I would say no, because this is the difference between friendship and love. Physical attraction.
No. Even with strangers, I NEED to tap them on the arm when talking, I can't communicate without some physical acknowledgement that I accept the person I'm talking to. Let alone in a romantic relationship! I'd go nuts if I were to go more than a day without some cuddling.
True love exists without physical attraction because physical attraction fades with age. If granny and gramps are still together purely on "physical attraction" then they must have some weird fetishes.
Of course it's possible. I mean, there are people who are asexual, but not aromatic, but they're still entirely capable of love. There's different kinds of love. Just because theirs isn't the normal kind doesn't mean it can't be just as real.
No. Even if they did fall in love, the chances of one person cheating with someone who he/she finds more attractive is very big. So I'd say that even if the two people fell in love in the first place, it would never last.
If u have a high sex drive and feel like you can't go without it or that you "need" it than it is an unhealthy relationship. But if he and she can go without and aren't really needing sex than its totally fine and good and possible
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I believe so. True love is finding someone who you connect with and just click. That doesn't mean that the guy has to be super ugly though all I'm saying is I do think it can exist because true love is more of a powerful connection than physical attraction.
No I don't think so. Sex is way of communication. Feelings are overwhelming in love, you contact to your partner in this way. Your friend loves her, but he doesn't see her as a partner. They are friends, not in relationship.
I never knew you could have a romantic relationship with someone and not have sex, let alone even kiss. Maybe your friend is on a different level than the rest of us.
This absolutely exists. Try googling the terms "asexual" and "aromantic"-- plenty of people can fall in love without feeling attraction in the conventional sense.
Yes its possible. It gives MUCH more room for talking and truly getting to know the person and tLking to them without getting physical. Its Almost refreshing
However, I can find someone not physically attractive from the beginning, and then feel that way later when I fall for them. That can happen a lot easier than it would sound.
Wow, the ladies are split exactly down the middle on this one. No surprise that there are twice as many guys saying that looks are a must. Physical attraction is a must for me to fall in love.
I recently dated a guy who adored me, but there was NO physical attraction. He would have been loyal and good to me, but I just couldn't get past the weight. I know it's shallow, but I am human. I talked to him online and had seen face shots, but when I met him in person I couldn't do it. I tried, I really did.
Nope, while love isn't mainly about physical attraction, there still has to be some physical attraction between the two in a relationship.
I've even hooked up with a girl that I felt no physical attraction to at all. She wasn't ugly but I didn't really find her attractive either and it felt weird even though I had no feelings for her as well.
If I'm going to date a girl, she doesn't have to be knockout beautiful but at least somewhat attractive.
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It's almost like how in order to date someone, you have to have something in common with them as well. It won't last if you're only physically attracted to each other. For example, there's a girl that wants to go on a date with me and she's cute but I don't know if I want to because she can't hold a conversation at all. Even when I ask her about herself, she still gives one word answers and vague responses. It feels like I'm interviewing her instead of having a conversation.
I would say no, BUT my opinion of what kind of woman I find physical attractive can be slightly flexible. I am not attracted to girls who are over weight, what so ever.
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what does kissing and love making have anything to do with love? i'm sure there was attraction. attraction doesn't have to be sexual all the time.
why do you like a girl? because she is pretty, charming and cute or because you want to sleep with her and that's it? that's not love.
An alpha male Canadian Tundra wolf and I bonded as brothers about a decade ago. I loved him so much I quit doing drugs, and hanging out with thugs, selling drugs. Nothing could reach me, not man, nor woman, but he did. So yeah it can exist without being sexual. I am sure it can exist between two people as well. But you must be in control of your faculties. That is a rare thing these days.
No, I don't think so. And there's nothing wrong with that, either.
I do think that the physical aspects are exaggerated, though. I'm a highly sexual person too, but sometimes it can get a little tiring that things are always about hotness and sex, sex, sex!!!
To be honest I don't really know, I haven't met anyone who I have truly been in love with so it's hard to say. But I can say this that I have meet guys who I didn't find attractive in the beginning but later then got more attractive as I got them to know. This however always just resulted in friendship (since I didn't feel like kissing them or anything else). So if I absolutely had to answer I would say no, because this is the difference between friendship and love. Physical attraction.
No. Even with strangers, I NEED to tap them on the arm when talking, I can't communicate without some physical acknowledgement that I accept the person I'm talking to. Let alone in a romantic relationship! I'd go nuts if I were to go more than a day without some cuddling.
True love exists without physical attraction because physical attraction fades with age. If granny and gramps are still together purely on "physical attraction" then they must have some weird fetishes.
Of course it's possible. I mean, there are people who are asexual, but not aromatic, but they're still entirely capable of love. There's different kinds of love. Just because theirs isn't the normal kind doesn't mean it can't be just as real.
No. Even if they did fall in love, the chances of one person cheating with someone who he/she finds more attractive is very big. So I'd say that even if the two people fell in love in the first place, it would never last.
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True TRUE love is the one that a parent has for his/her child. Nothing is comparable. Everything else can be replaced.
If u have a high sex drive and feel like you can't go without it or that you "need" it than it is an unhealthy relationship. But if he and she can go without and aren't really needing sex than its totally fine and good and possible
I believe so. True love is finding someone who you connect with and just click. That doesn't mean that the guy has to be super ugly though all I'm saying is I do think it can exist because true love is more of a powerful connection than physical attraction.
No I don't think so. Sex is way of communication. Feelings are overwhelming in love, you contact to your partner in this way.
Your friend loves her, but he doesn't see her as a partner. They are friends, not in relationship.
I never knew you could have a romantic relationship with someone and not have sex, let alone even kiss. Maybe your friend is on a different level than the rest of us.
Thats what I think, I kinda felt ashamed for desiring such a thing in a relationship.
This absolutely exists. Try googling the terms "asexual" and "aromantic"-- plenty of people can fall in love without feeling attraction in the conventional sense.
Yes its possible. It gives MUCH more room for talking and truly getting to know the person and tLking to them without getting physical. Its Almost refreshing
No.
However, I can find someone not physically attractive from the beginning, and then feel that way later when I fall for them. That can happen a lot easier than it would sound.
I agree with this
Wow, the ladies are split exactly down the middle on this one. No surprise that there are twice as many guys saying that looks are a must. Physical attraction is a must for me to fall in love.
I recently dated a guy who adored me, but there was NO physical attraction. He would have been loyal and good to me, but I just couldn't get past the weight. I know it's shallow, but I am human. I talked to him online and had seen face shots, but when I met him in person I couldn't do it. I tried, I really did.
If you try too hard and its not a natural chemistry then there is only one outcome
Nope, while love isn't mainly about physical attraction, there still has to be some physical attraction between the two in a relationship.
I've even hooked up with a girl that I felt no physical attraction to at all. She wasn't ugly but I didn't really find her attractive either and it felt weird even though I had no feelings for her as well.
If I'm going to date a girl, she doesn't have to be knockout beautiful but at least somewhat attractive.
It's almost like how in order to date someone, you have to have something in common with them as well. It won't last if you're only physically attracted to each other. For example, there's a girl that wants to go on a date with me and she's cute but I don't know if I want to because she can't hold a conversation at all. Even when I ask her about herself, she still gives one word answers and vague responses. It feels like I'm interviewing her instead of having a conversation.
I would say no, BUT my opinion of what kind of woman I find physical attractive can be slightly flexible. I am not attracted to girls who are over weight, what so ever.