Friendships do end when friends stop communicating soundly. This isn't just present in dramas and series; they do happen for everyone's reasons. It might be because of jealousy, excessive competition, and/or intolerance.
When friends begin to view each other as their respective stimulants of contempt, hate, and aggression, their bond will gradually sever and will yield to a decline in intimacy. This is happening when friends find themselves too incompatible in terms of interests and contrasting points of view in life.
This myTake presents the things that will probably happen when your friend becomes your foe.
1. Lots of betraying and backstabbing.
When someone sides against you, they will use their knowledge about you for your own destruction and for their benefit. The most intimate moments will be blurted out. The sealed secrets will be shared.
2. Encounters become less benevolent than before.
Passing each other in the hall will constitute the worst seconds of your life, and this feeling is mutually reciprocated by your then-friend and now-foe.
3. You won't care anymore.
Some people really avoid talking to people they don't get along with. It saves the probability of causing another unforgettable hype.
4. You strive to forget about the past and move on.
There is nothing you can do to regain what you've lost.
Don't ever cry over spilled milk.
5. You can deal with a day without involving yourself with your ex-friend/s at all.
Basically, you'd find yourself ghosting on him/her/them.
You can start your day without asking how they spent their night. You wouldn't bother going to the places you once used to go together.
Everything will change and this might send a big impact to you especially when your former friend used to support and accompany you with your aspirations and leisure time.
6. You start befriending others instead.
A new friendship will always be born out of an old and past friendship. You would start sharing memories with a new set of people that love you for who you are. You will involve yourself to the interests of your new friends at the same way they get involved in your interests. With this, you have a big chance to forget about your former friends.
7. You see your past experience as a lesson from life.
The reflection process differs from person to person but I am certain that bad encounters are often the breeding ground for resolutions.
There is an end to everything when you have fail to address something that came from small misunderstandings.
You also learn that friends will leave when their interests aren't catered well: (1) moral and emotional support, (2) validation (yes, validating is a norm for intimate cases of friendship), and, most of the time, (3) humor.
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You learn that failure is a part of life. You should also learn that this failure will not define your future happiness. There is hope to find an new friendship that will give you new happiness.
This is true! Thank you for sharing :D
The end of a friendship can be worse than an end of a love relationship. Friends confide and oftentimes the emotional intimacy is much stronger.
A lot of truth in that take - Well done