Most men probably don't even know why their preferred bra cups size is, and that's okay!

[aamy811]

Most of the time I see men on here saying things like "I only like women C cup or under", "anything larger than a D is too much", "I only date girls with a B or higher", but I don't think most people can actually say that.
Bras are a complication beyond belief. But what many don't understand is that you cup size changes with your band size.

As shown above, the size of a cup for a 34DD is bigger than a 30DD. So when you say "I like (blank) cup size", do you really? Or maybe you like that cup size on a certain frame. So unless your know someone of every size in the worlds I really don't think there's a way to specifically say you think one size is better than another. That would involve too much math (unless you like math)

If you can see above this shows different ways bus sizes change based on band or cup volume. t I think a lot men think of this when they have an ideal cup size in mind is the one on top. But not all the cups are the same size. They have the same sister sizing but aren't the same cup sizes.

The second one shows cup in coinciding with band. Which like the first image explains how cups depends on your band so once again you may think a 32FF is too big, but not a 26FF. So don't rule out a whole cup size.

And the last shows a band size staying the same as chest size increases. I think this is what most men think off but unfortunately not all women are the same brand size.
So ladies next time you feel bad that you have a C or a D don't fear most of those guys have no idea what they're talking about. And guys be a little more open minded before ruling out a whole entire cup size of women because boobs are way more complicated than you think.

^-^

[Roadcruiser1]

I actually do not. Just like my future children I like to just think of her as being healthy, and happy. I do not see breast size as anything that matters regardless, and it is superficial to judge a girl how big her breast size is. So there you have it. I see nothing important in breast size. I hope you are very happy with that fact regardless. :).

[Goldie757]

Thank you. The amount of times I had to explain that I am a d cup even though I have small breasts.

[HikerDude]

No, you've got this totally wrong. Most guys don't give a rat's ass about a woman's cup size. We just want a good woman who's in decent shape who actually likes us for us. You're trying to create conflict and misery where there simply is none, and I'm not the only guys who's going to call you on that.

[aamy811]

I'm not saying it's wrong that men have a preference. Basically everyone has a preferences about everything and that's okay. I'm just trying to explain to them how boobs and bras cruelly work.

[HikerDude]

I'm telling you that most men don't really care about the size of your tits. The overall shape of a woman's body is a lot more important than her breast size.

[aamy811]

Well I'm not saying that it's men's determining factor but if shape is important, then the size of your breasts and shape contributes to that.
And once again I jut made this to make many people aware of the confusing world of bra sizes

[OlderAndWiser]

@HikerDude I am with you 100%. While I have some preference for a petite girl with 34A or 34B boobs, I don't care if they're 32A or 36D as long as they look proportionate to the girl's body. All this preoccupation about boob size is blamed on us men but it is a monster that is perpetuated by women. Give me two cute tits to play with and I'm happy.

[aamy811]

@OlderAndWiser it's not a complete lie when women blame their self consciousness on men. I remember my really close friend getting picked on in 6th grade because her boobs were small. I remember the hurtful comments guys said to me in 6th grade also.
The guys may have matured an learne to to care so much about size but those comments still stick with us. I know they've drone toy stuck with me

[HikerDude]

@aamy811 Girls make fun of guys just the same, so it's a two-way street. I was fat all through school, so trust me I know. But most girls would tell me to get over it if I admitted to carrying resentment towards the girls who made fun of me in 6th grade.

[OlderAndWiser]

In my generation, none of the girls had boobs in 6th grade. But, I do understand the point that some guys make an issue of boob size. Some girls make an issue of how long is a guy's dick, and I am right at the midpoint of normal range for a guy, but I don't let those vocal girls who like 8" monsters make me feel inadequate. I know that I have had mutual orgasms with almost every woman I have ever been with. Girls with small tits should know that they had quite satisfactory experiences with the guys they invited into bed, so why does the question keep getting asked?

[HikerDude]

@OlderAndWiser Yes, I agree completely. Small tits are hot, and lots of guys agree with us, yet girls consistently bring this up with the attendant accusation that men have made them feel bad about being small. I'm more into athletic girls myself, and many of them have small boobs. The hottest girl I've ever been with was a B-cup. Small-breasted girls have nothing to worry about.

[aamy811]

@HikerDude but then if your in the opposite you still have tons to be self conscious about. Both ends of the spectrum get rude comments said. Or comments not even meant to be rude that hurt your feelings. I'll say 80% of guys prefer a b cup and max a C cup. Guys think that's really helpful because they're looking out for the smaller girls. And that's great because they should feel proud to.
But then everyone bigger is left sitting in the corner feeling like something's wrong with them.

[HikerDude]

@aamy811 No, women with big boobs are widely celebrated in popular culture, so there's very little reason for them to feel self-conscious. You all need to stop blaming your self-perceptions on men. WE don't control them. YOU have ownership of your emotions and self-talk.

[aamy811]

Larger breasts are celebrated in male aspects of popculture and not in female aspects.
The average man has been found to like a woman whose a size 8-12, yet the average woman want to be a size 2-6. Men talk about how they want curvy women, yet must women want to look like a Victoria's Secret model. So it depends on what side of pop culture your talking about.
Also it depends on who your talking to. After seeing countless poles the average man says he like breast sizes b the best. So as an average woman trying to get an average man I'm going to assume that's what they like and the media is instead following one persons preference. I've heard too many guys say they prefer small boobs to assume guys don prefer small boobs.
I'm not trying to blame anyone but just to let people understand that their comments can hurt. Once I was in the dressing room with my mom trying on pants, when I put on my size she said "honey are your sure you don't need a bigger size?". She didn't mean to offend me

[aamy811]

But that comment has seriously messed with me for years. I could have blown it off and not cared but words do mean something to people. Every time someone calls me fat, I could blow it off but it just doesn't work that way. "Words are like weapons. They would sometimes"

[HikerDude]

@aamy811 No, big boobs are celebrated everywhere, in magazine ads, Victoria's Secret shows, movies, TV, etc. The only place big boobs might not be celebrated would a feminist conference or something.

As far as negative comments sticking with us, boobs aren't the only possible source of angst for young people. Like I said, I was fat growing up, and I can remember half a dozen hurtful things that girls said to me concerning my weight. I remember one girl in 7th grade who told me that I was so fat that no girl would ever like me because I didn't even look like a boy. That definitely stuck with me, but do I get to blame all girls for that comment? Nope.

[aamy811]

I feel like your not understandig. I'm in no way trying to demonizes men or make them seem like bullies. But sometimes people don't understand that their comment the brings one group up, brings one group down.
And I just want guys to remember that before they make a comment to a girl with small boobs saying "yeah small boobs are awesome, big boobs are gross" just think about how that girl you might have compared her too. Because comments can hurt, and you know that.
Also once again it depends where you look. I don't remover being 13 an looking in fashio magazine and seeing a lot of girls with double Ds

[HikerDude]

@aamy811 you're just too offended by the world to even want to understand anything I've written. Again, YOU'RE NOT THE ONLY PERSON ON THIS PLANET WHO WAS RIDICULED OR HUMILIATED FOR YOUR PHYSICAL APPEARANCE. It happens. It sucks, but it happens. Hopefully we grow and learn to let these things go over time because they don't define who we are. You got ridiculed for your boobs and I got ridiculed for being fat. So? Is that the final word on who we are? Everyone gets ridiculed for something, so don't think you're alone.

[aamy811]

I don't think I'm the only one and have never thought I was. But sometimes letting the ridicule know how their words effect you can cause them to really think about what they're saying and next time be more sensitive towards you an other people. The first step to fixing a problem is communicating that there is a problem

[HikerDude]

@aamy811 Good lord... no one here is ridiculing you or anyone else. What most guys here have said is that they like boobs--big, small, or otherwise. No one trashed big boobs. No one trashed small boobs. No one trashed medium boobs. Stop searching for insult where there is none.

[aamy811]

I'm not speaking about only here but in general I've heard people make rude comments. And I just want people to remember to think about what they're saying

[Supermosh1990]

I just don't care what size boobs the girl I want to date has , that is because to me and many other men find all boob sizes are all equally sexy, because boobs are boobs. I want to date a girl for her personality , not her body. I want to date a girl that has the following: big heart, mature, kind, polite, and has an amazing personality. All that matters is in the inside not the outside (this can apply to both genders).

[Supermosh1990]

Every guy is different so not every man will agre with what I just said.

[Supermosh1990]

Yep still do

[TadCurious]

The whole idea that guys (some of them, anyway) would say they have a "preferred" cup size is just asinine. You're right -- they don't know what they're talking about.

[Anonymous]

This isn't even true. Cup size is the volume. Band size is the length it must stretch around your back. Bigger band size means a girl is fatter or just wide. 32D LOOKS smaller than 36D but that's just because 32D is skinnier/smaller in her circumference, and 36D is bigger in that area. But comparing their boobs, they'd be the same. Misleading info.

[aamy811]

I'm sorry to tell you but your wrong her. Band and cup are corresponding measurements. If you want to try, go to target get bras of different bands but your same cup size and brig bobby pins. Try on each bra. Obviously the band will be too loose on some and then it's time to whip out some bobby pins.
I'm not trying to lie for any reason, I really wouldn't benefit from that. This is my job and I'd say my info is pretty sound.

[Anonymous]

also, different manufacturers make different sizes for the same bra so while one bra in one company may be a c, the same bra for another company may be a b. Victorias secret is a big culprit when it comes to that. They tend to make everything appear like it's really tight on you, because well, it's VS

[aamy811]

Also it depends on the shape of the models breasts. They may be wide, narrow, full on bottom, high and tight, lower hanging. And all those can cause you to have to change sizes

[AleDeEurope]

I've honestly never understood how to measure a bra, so when that type of questions come up, I never answer, cause I have no idea.
I always say that the perfect boobs in my opinion are the ones that I can perfectly grab with my hand :P

[kxera]

The number is the measure around rib cage. The letter is how far apart the boobs are.

[AleDeEurope]

@kxera So the number is what determines how big the boobs are? That's what I never understand.

[kxera]

Neither determine how big the boobs are. Someone could have the same size breasts but weaar different sized bra because of how wide their rib cage is or have the same size rib cage but have breasts positioned differently. Neither determine specific size. They are just to make sure the band around is wide enough and the cups of the bra aren't wide when the boobs are close together. To girls could have different sized boobs and still wear the same general bra size.

[AleDeEurope]

@kxera So then why some girls ask if their boobs are big enough by telling us their bra size?

[kxera]

1) Most girls don't even know what the measurements mean
2) The measurements do make a difference. Obviously an 32A isn't the same as 40A
3) Guys always talk about liking B cups etc so girls just tell them that to see if the guy will be satisfied with their A, B or C cup.

[AleDeEurope]

@kxera Oh, ok. Well, thanks for teaching me about bras xD I'd give you MHO, but I can't :P hahaha

[kxera]

Lol. It's fine. Thanks!

[aamy811]

@kxera the letter is the size of your breast tissue in relevance to your rib cage. So basically how fat out they go. Is that what you meant or do they size it different where you go? (Not to be attacking, just asking)

[aamy811]

@AleDeEurope this May help. I wrote a take on how to did your bra size so this may help you understand how it all works.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a10360-how-to-find-your-real-bra-size-at-home-ditch-victoria-s-secret

[fenixx0083]

Well that was informative... I have no idea what to do with this information, but I have it now... 😄

[Climber]

Its normal because it has to do with circumference increase and volume increases with the third power of radius.

[aamy811]

Yeah mathematics! And they said I'd never use geometry in the real world.

[sean1234]

Yeah, but what does the 30-38, the A-F really mean? Measurements in mm, cm? Diagonally, horizontally, from here to there to where?

I get the sizes are mostly the same give or take.

[aamy811]

The number is the size of your band or rib cage. And the cup is the difference between your busy and your rib cage. (1in=a, 2in=b, 3in=c, etc)

[Butterfly1002]

So true, I'm a 30dd ad get all kinds of reactions, most people don't believe me when they here my bra size but I also get a lot of comments about having great boobs :/

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

I like breasts all together, no idea about cup size.

[Anonymous]

Finally something on here that shows a some what close to the relationship between cup size and actual breast size for those who do not know :D

[aamy811]

Yeah. It becomes really easy to self conscious when tons I guys say the physical trait you have is unattractive so I wanted to make those girls feel better.
While also letting the guys learn something new

[YourFutureEx]

They have idea of what they're talking about (as they have image in their mind) but they don't have the right words to explain.

[emmabee11]

Does it matter? no... boobs are just boobs to men... get over it lol

[aamy811]

I didn't no I was user something. I simply thought id explain breast sizing to people because it's really confusing.
Like I said, it's okay to not understanding breast sizing but for future reference here's the info

[Jaydog666]

Boobs@

[emmabee11]

lol see, just boobs :P boobs is the only word they need to know

[Andreacats]

I hate my small boobs , but I love the fact that they are sensitive!

[Anonymous]

I don't care unless they look strange. I just want a quality girl

[lamborgini15]

Not a clue i prefer ass but i love all boobs besides really saggy ones.

[Anonymous]

Some girls prefer penis size like that some guys prefring girls boobs.

[aamy811]

But a 6 inch penis is always 6 inches. A D cup isn't always the same size. Haha
This wasn't meant to attack anyone just to explain things.

[Opinion Owner]

ok, but dick also increase with age.

[Anonymous]

The bra cup does not drive my desire. However, it does get my attention.

[DaddyRollingStone]

36B is god tier, thats all the breast you need.

[aamy811]

But as I said above, unfortunately not all women are the same bad size. So a 36B on one girl isn't the same as a 26B on another girl

[DaddyRollingStone]

Yeah, well its all about her frame anyway

[aamy811]

Nope it's about her farm and cup size harmoniously

[DaddyRollingStone]

I do like a woman who can harvest a mean crop