Women always seem to be repelled by the "nice guy". At best the nice guy just ends up as a friend, but nothing more. Women just don not want to get on a sexual or romantic level with these types of guys.
Even if the guy is some "hot stud", but is a "nice guy", the woman is repelled by his niceguy-ness, his hot looks are negated by it.
so what is it about nice guys that makes them so unattractive?
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a lot of guys who peg themselves as nice guys are actually wimps..thats unattractive. I want a guy who treats me right and with respect, but don't go overboard and think that means that you can never disagree with me, let people walk all over you, and generally act passive. that's really unattractive because every girl wants a man who can protect her on some level and "nice guys" don't give off the impression that they can do that. also if I'm not physically attracted to a guy, it doesn't matter how nice he is.
Just because a guy is a "nice guy" doesn't mean that he is a good man. It could be any reason.
Usually guys who are nice guys are the safe boring ones that you aren't really into...they may have admirable qualities but they just don't give you that spark, and there is little to no sexual attraction there
Usually they lack confidence and are unsure of themselves, they come off passive and less manly. Does that mean you have to be a jerk? No but you can't be a punk either.
Steve Urkel was a nice guy but would you date him? But when he turned into Stefon then Laura Winslow was attracted to him. because Stefon was good looking, carried himself well and had sex appeal. that was usually what nice guys lack.
just because a man looks good on paper doesn't mean that he is desirable to you0