I'll admit my style isn't something you'd find in the average store. I like dark, vampy/ Victorian gothic/Lolita style clothing and shoes
he tried to explain what he thinks would look good on me - and its tumblr girly clothing
I texted him, the way I put myself together makes me feel confident but all he does is bring me down
He makes nasty comments to me to try and make me "change myself" its really upsetting me
i really love my boyfriend we have had the best memories together :(
I don't know what to do :(
Most Helpful Guy
You sound one very exciting lady!! I feel that you have a lot in common with another lady that used to be here. She has the most incredible style I've ever seen! You sound like you could be wearing Dark Star or Raven clothes.
You must stick with how you feel most comfortable. It is your life to do as you please and to dress as you please. If he can't handle that, then that's his problem.
Maybe you could ask the opinion of friends, both guys and girls. They could give you better opinions as they could see exactly how you look.
If it's any consolation, my mum is in her 40's now, but being skinny, she still looks terrific in goth clothing!!0
Most Helpful Girl
Why did he even begin to be your boyfriend if the way you dress affects him so much?
The level of his intelligence and your willingness to be trampled on is affecting your relationship, not your dressing style.
Be yourself, respect yourself and dump his loser ass, or stay with him and change everything about yourself to suite his perception of who you should be.0