My parents are recently divorced and I just started the summer holidays. Yesterday, my mum bought me a really pretty bikini, I have been wanting a bikini for a long time, and I wore it to the pool today. I love the bikini so much although I know that my dad won't be happy about it, how do I tell him that I think I'm old enough, and that I love my bikini so much. How do I ask him so that he'll say yes? Both my parents are taking me and my younger siblings to a holiday Christmas party, (I live in Austalia so our Christmas is in summer) there is going to be a water fight so I wanna bring my bikini, should I ask him beforehand or should I just wear it and let him find out for himself?
- Tell my dad before the Christmas partyVote A
- Let my dad find out at the Christmas partyVote B
Most Helpful Guy
I would clear it with your dad before party, last thing you want is an argument at Christmas. Your mum bought you the bikini so she is happy with it, let her tell your dad she bought you a bikini so at least she will be on your side in the discussion.0
Most Helpful Girl
Your Dad wants to protect his little girl... from the googly eyes of boys.
So, it's common that Dad's are usually protective in what their daughters have to wear.
I think you should ask him nicely.
Also, if you can... ask your Mom to buy you a waist cover up... so when you get out of the pool you look appropriate in the eyes of your Dad.
I think that might make him feel a little better.