Every time I find a girl I like, its never a fail that she is already taken or there is another guy going after her at the same time. I have never had a girlfriend so I always think he is better than me, usually.
Sometimes, I think I'm better, but I still end up losing to him. I have tons to offer a girl, usually more than these d bags. So how do I show her I'm the better choice?
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I know its not about standing out exactly...if someone likes you and connects with you the other stuff won't matter. yea suuure we would like a guy who can cook, dance or whatever seems really unique but I don't necassarily think you should change you're interest, hobbies, activities, or you're personality to put on a fake persona (also I'm not trying to say you're trying to be fake or change yourself...just something to think about) Let people like you for who you are (I know ha ha it sounds clicheish!)...all you have to do is show them your best in your own style and being the best Humorous, serious, caring, romantic or deep guy...whatever guy you are. you can't let other peoples styles, personality put you're own self down...show her what YOU got to offer...I don't know what that is...you have to figure that out for yourself. if you need more help...you could try being more romantic then the other guys. I agree with Biannnnn, write a song or poem...thats nice...you just want to stand out by showing much you care.1