I'm talking about girls more than guys here. Sure they may get more looks and stares and wolf whistles and stuff. But what about guys approaching them and asking them out? I've heard a mixture of answers from previous questions about this topic. What is your opinion on this?
Girls and guys, if you are considered attractive by others do you have experiences with this subject?
Guys rarely approach me even though I get stares and catcalling ... I just guess most part of the male population are cowards... sry guys ... but it's true ar scared of what ... this would be a good question ... Why are guys so scared to approach an attractive women? same can go for guys... there are girl how don't approach guys for whatever reasons... no ideea why.
As for the girls are supposed to make the first move ... Bolsheet in my oppinion... why not ... it's a free world out there ...
I'm not always as hostile ... sry if I came out that strong ... thing is that it's sheet to be attractive and in the situation where you have to answer questions like: Who come you're still a virgin? Why don't you have a boyfriend?
Or the other stuff like: I didn't think I was good enough. or Why would you want me if you can have anyone...
Guys really now ... it's bolsheet and you know it.
Yeah, I definitely get attention from guys when I go out but guys never approach me to ask me out. The guys that do end up trying to get involved with me they don't have that confidence to just ask me out, like we'll hang out and then maybe he'll kiss me but they don't ask me out. Usually they end up being jerks and just move on. The nice guys who would like me for who I am aren't giving me the time of day except for watching me from a distance...I guess they think that since other guys whistle and stuff or give me attention when I'm out that that's representative of how many guys are asking me out on dates, so they think they have no chance. However, that's definitely not the case...
Guys usually get intimated I feel. They have crushes on us, but never ask us out supposing they are not good enough or we're taken.
recently, I found out a guy I liked from high school also had a crush on me. 9 years later, he brought it up in a chat. I asked how come he never said anything, he told me he didn't know I was single. But had he made a move on me, we would have an awesome relationship.
Guys whistle, stare, catcall and everything else to me but never approach me. Its like there a bubble around me and the only thing that they can do is be pigs. I wish they did. Cause girls aren't suppose to be the first one to do something. I mean we leave hints but guys don't even pick up on the bombs. And its hurtful when guys don't do anything because we don't feel worth anything. But I'm really friendly and funny cause I always make my friends laugh.
Well there is that saying that is something like: The attractive ones are the people everyone wants to hook up with or have a one night stand, not people you want to take home to your parents at the end of the day.
Well yes more attractive people do get asked out far less then those who are not becuase apparently we are all bitches and snooty and we feel that guys are just after us for thier notches on thier belts
I've been told on numerous occasions and by different people of varying ages that I am very beautiful and special and could be a model if I wanted to (not model thin though, more a size 4/6, and I'm tall, with a bit of an hourglass figure).
I get looked at, yes, stared at, wolf whistled at sometimes, I've never seriously been approached and never been asked out. I should note I'm only just 17 though, and don't go out often (It's legal in Holland at 16). I'm usually the one initiating contact.
There are other things than beauty that make people less approachable, though. I am shy, which is easily mistaken for arrogance, and intelligence and sharp-wittedness are factors too. (Not a dumb blond here!).
i am not really sure , but maybe you might be right somehow.i know for myself when I lost some weight and started to show myself in more feminine ways (not necessarily sexy dresses), many men showed attraction towards me.the problem is though, in such cases it felt to me like it was mostly sexual , which I don`t care about.i want a man to love me for the way I am , not only be seduced by my sex appeal.
i seldom get asked out. I have tons of guy friends, but none that I am attracted to. I sometimes think that I intimidate attractive guys.
I'm yelled at, groped, catcalled, stared at, but never approached or asked out. Then when men get to know me/date me they question how I'm single and tell me how beautiful my face is. I tell them men don't approach me. The last guy I talked to mentioned how in the past he didn't go after a lot of girls like me because he assumed he couldn't get them, so he didn't try.
It's annoying and hurtful. I feel just just a pretty face with nothing else to offer. I'm told I'm intimidating because I'm pretty, which is upsetting because I'm so friendly and love meeting people!
You know, I am not coward. I go almost to all girls I love to look at anywhere. I didn't get any positive response. Beautiful woman automatically respond badly because when I approach they think I am a pig.
BEAUTIFUL GIRLS TALK TO ME PLEASE. Just talk, I won't eat you. I am too far anyway :D.