where do you live? I see a lot of answers of girls saying something like 'im 5'7 or 5'8 or 5'9 and I'm taller then everyone else'... I live in soCal and there's tons of girls around that height.. I always thought it was normal. and I see a lot of girls that are just about 6'0.. I was just always confused by that lol...
anyways what I get from you is that you wish girls would go for guys that are only just a bit taller then them? that way everyone would have a guy that was taller then them. instead of a few having guys way taller and the rest stuck with shorter guys. that makes sense to me but you can't control who other people date lol... so I guess in the meantime ill try to restore the balance by being open to taller girls
I'm 5'10 and I rarely see girls taller then me around my age, then again when I do I feel they aren't attracted to me which is fine of course. It does get to me, I remember a time I saw a girl walking her dog who was extremely beautiful , had the smile, the eyes,etc. When I got closer to her, she seemed about my height or an inch taller then looked the other way quickly. I'm sure if I said something I had a shot but I do feel once your shorter then her, out of sight, out of mind I suppose.
My wife's around your height (I'm 6'3) so hopefully that's acceptable.
For the record, of the guys I know the one who is MOST likely to hit on tall girls is about 5'7. Its like the sort of tall guys are thrown by girls who are their height, but he's just ... accepted that a lot of girls are taller then him, and no longer cares.
At 5'5" I'm about average, I guess. Height isn't a huge deal for me, although I tend to feel a bit intimidated around anyone taller than 6'3"-ish. I hate having to crane my neck and look up. Makes me feel like a five year old, haha