Just wondering...I sort of feel weird in skirts because they are not the norm where I'm from...most women wear jeans or pants. But recently, I've been wearing more skirts/dresses, because they are so much more comfortable...But I don't want to be portrayed in a negative way...
For example...yesterday I was wearing a long skirt, almost all the way to the floor...it was not slutty in any way...but it did show off my waist-to-hip ratio (I have a very thin waist and for better for worse...childbearing hips, which I can do nothing about...I work out daily...and they are going nowhere)...Anyways...I was walking in a parking lot...and these two black guys (sorry if this sounds racist...I'm just specifying their race because it only seems like black men are interested in me) started cat calling towards me...and they even got out of their car...I just kept walking...but then in the mall more black men were saying stuff to me. And, as usual, non of the white men noticed me, I don't think.
So, any thoughts? Sorry about my long details...again...Thanks for your help, and again, I'm sorry if I sound racist in any way, I don't mean it like that.
I notice girls in skirts/dresses more then when they wear pants, I look at them more, but that's it. As for the black guy thing, do you live in a area where there are more black people then white people?
Ok really random but I love the way you worded everything and with your convo with Sephora too. lol yeah it's random
But it just puts emphasis on your feminine form and guys notice and like that. If you want to date guys with you cluture and how you grew up maybe you could ask friends if they know any single guys with your values :) and those guys sounded inapproriate by the way but best luck :)
Yeah, I get more attention when I wear dresses or skirts, lol even from other women. I don't know why that is, but it is what it is.
I love to wear dresses for some reason, esp. in the summer. It just makes more sense, it's cooler. I always felt sorry for men because in the work place, when it's hot they have no other choice but long, hot pants.
As for men who cat call, do they really think that works or that we like that? I would never go for that! Tacky as all get out. Would they want someone doing that to their mama? Or sister? Or daughter? I think not.
black people love a good waist to hip ratio. hourglass & pear shapes are the most desirable shapes, that's why you get a lot of attention from black men. I'm a girl and I'll look if I see a chick with a crazy whr its just pretty *no homo*