So I have this guy friend who talks "dirty/perverted" to me and says he doesn't want a relationship with anyone and doesn't wanna date anyone. He... Show More
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Firstly, take a step back, breathe in, breathe out. You're way too over worked about this, you have to just calm down a little bit about the whole situation. I know it can be frustraiting, annoying, confusing, upseting, or a combination of any of those, but it's important to keep your self at a controled rate to think and perform what you feel is the best thing to do.
Secondly, as soon as a I read that he doesn't want to get in a relationship, but talks dirty, I immediatly thought "okay, he just wants a fling/one night stand." Well, let me put it this way, no guy is really going to talk to a girl like that unless he wants to do that, ever. He might not want a relationship with you for whatever reasons he might have, but he would certainly like to... well yea. And adding in that he hasn't had sex in a while makes it just that much more obvious. Honestly it's hard to say whether he likes you in any other way aside from that way, but he should be mature enough at 25 to realize that if you want an actual relationship with a girl, talking dirty isn't a good place to start.
That girl he is talking about that he likes might be you. Can't say I really know if you are "mean" to him as you didn't get into any description there. I would say if you really like him (even though talks dirty, which I personaly find very disrepectful and just... wrong to a friend) then ask him out. Just take it slow, make sure you don't hop into bed on the first date, unless all you are after is a one night stand as well, but for any sort of meaning relationship, it's a bad start.