Guys: What do you find more attractive? Blonde or Brunette?

[southernbelle88]

Wondering is guys like girls with blonde hair or brunette hair. Mine is in between and I kinda want to dye my hair. Wondering if I should or should not.

[AlekNovy]

Hehe, I love this question, because I'm SO strongly opinionated on it.

Personally I like everything *except* blondes. There have been exceptions, but extremely rare.

Basically, what turns me on about a woman's hair is how much it shows her independence and not caring about looks... Like, how do I explain it? If a girl looks hot, but at the same time looks like she doesn't care about being hot? WOW, then she's a mega turn-on :) Its a tricky effect.

Blonde usually associates me with her trying to look hot, so that's an instant turn off to me. As is straightened/ironed hair. The more individual/wacky a girl's hairstyle, the hotter she is to me. I have met blondes that have been attracted to, but usually were amazing in all other areas, so the hair was an add-on.

If its her natural hair color + wacky hair === Turn on

Redhair = turn on (coz no one really has that kind of super-red-hair like the dye)

I've never met a girl that dyes her hair red that wasn't super fun or individualistic/nonconformist. Redheads are hot! So are (natural) brunettes with a cool hairstyle that DOES NOT look like the hairstyles in cosmo. If you can't find the hairstyle in cosmo, it turns me on.

[Subotai]

Dont die it. I mean the short answer to your question is Brunettes. Blondes tease brunettes please. Blondes tend to have a chip on their shoulders It helps that Brunettes are like 92% of all women in the world. Team brunettes got a huge pool of sexiness. It also helps that I am brunette. Don't die it though. I really like in between blonde and light brown. Its very common in Russian woman. In fact I think very few blondes don't have a little brown. Even though my hair is very dark I have always had some red in there. I wouldn't dye my hair though it would look wierd

[melissarose8585]

Everyone has different likes and dislikes. Every guy I've dated has loved the brunette thing, and I have guy friends that will only date redheads. To be honest, none of my guy friends are dating or married to blondes.

Of course, that could just reinforce what you said too. I've noticed that most of my blonde friends are a little crazier and a little more into the nightlife, but I've also noticed that they go through men like underwear, or really, men go through them like underwear. Men like a girl that will play, but most of the time won't marry one.

[stargazer1]

I don't think hair colour (blonde) says that you are going to be crazy.

[melissarose8585]

I don't hair color says you are going to be crazy. I just noted that out of my friends, the blondes are the crazy ones. That is a select group of people. I know blondes (two in my family) that aren't crazy.

[justme91]

i'm a natural blonde, but my hair kinda went a strange colour, like dishwater blonde, and I decided to dye it. I went blonder, and it looked fine, but having to maintain dyed blonde hair is a pain in the ass. I made the radical decision to go brown, and I'm loving it, it looks shinier, healthier and so much more natural. but it's all down to you and what you're comfortable with. good luck with your decision! :)

[mormongirlmichl]

Don't dye your hair...It's gorgeous...keep it like that, it fits your face/style... :)

[mormongirlmichl]

Thx! :)

[londongirl357]

I've never heard of someone assuming all blondes have great personalities and girls with any other hair colour don't.

If anything, dark hair makes your features stand out more so if you're reaaaally good looking you'll look superfine with dark or red hair and just attractive with blonde hair because it all blends more.

Most guys I know prefer dark hair or don't care and like dark, blonde and redheads. I definitely don't think blondes look more crazy or outgoing. Dark hair stands out more if you have relatively light skin so those people stand out more than blondes - sorry to burst your bubble.

The majority of female celebrities who rank highly on those 'sexiest women' lists have dark hair - Alessandra Ambrosio, Adriana Lima, Megan Fox, Natalie Portman, Angelina Jolie, etc.

You cite 'popular girls' in teen movies as an example of how hot girls are always blonde, but have you ever noticed how those girls are almost always portrayed negatively and are stupid, superficial, bitchy and think they're a lot hotter than they are? Or did that one pass right over your head?

[alan82]

I think it's a matter of blondes standing out in a crowd.

I grew up in Holland, where well over 60% of the population is blond. The most popular girls in school and college were always the ones with raven-black hair, to the extent that I knew many blondes who dyed their hair black!

Now I live in a country where there are almost no natural blondes and I see all the blondes getting the attention. Heck, I've found myself more interested in blondes than I was before when I was surrounded by them!

Hope this helps!

[Subotai]

Dont die it. I mean the short answer to your question id Brunettes. Blondes tease brunettes tease. It helps that Brunettes are like 90% of all women in the world. Team brunettes got a huge pool of sexiness. It also helps that I am brunette. Don't die it though. I really like in between blonde and light brown. Its very common in Russian woman. In fact I think very few blondes don't have a little brown. Even though my hair is very dark I have always had some red in there. I wouldn't dye my hair though it would look wierd

[nymphoman]

Personally I would like to give a blonde a go but probably because my wife is brunette and men always want what they can't have...like my sister in law is blonde but I wants never gets.

In your case you want advice what colour to change to but without seeing you how can we say, blonde or brunette either way may or may not suit you, it varies from person to person.

3 months ago, I will assume you chose but next time try using one wash dyes and you can give them a day each and see what people think suits you more.

[MaxPrime]

lol tsk tsk tsk

The right answer should be what do YOU want it to be. Be you. I don't care what your hair color is. You want a guy to look into your eyes; not your hair. I know, I know, girls think a lot about what other people think of them, it's female human nature. What makes you happy? Go for that.

"There's no point in judging a girl on the outside, she will slip through my fingers."

-MaxPrime

[lost-angel]

I love this answer

[bcrombie]

Do you want to know what I really find attractive? Confidence.

Don't listen to the media, looks can spart initial attraction but a great outlook will KEEP a guy interested. If you're looking for a couple minutes of attention I'd say refer to google for surveys but otherwise, the most attractive thing in a woman to most men is how sure of herself she is.

Confidence is contangeous and so is not having confidence.

[Cartiphilus]

I prefer straight hair and have been very attracted straight hair blonds. However, I've always somehow known that who ever I was going to find to love forever was going to be a brunette. She is and does have straight hair. I couldn't be happier. My answer is brunette.

[ivarei]

brunettes is actually the most common favorite. it's a hollywood stereotype that "gentlemen prefer blondes". it's each to their own. but I can almost guarantee that for every guy you see who favors blondes, you'll find 2 who prefer redheads and 4 or 5 who prefer dark hair.

[WhatIsThisIDont]

Heh, oh boy. I guess nobody has ever met anyone like me before... but I'm not particularly fond of blond hair. Any girl I see with blond hair I count it as a physical turn off on my mental checklist. I'm not hating, its just not my thing. I prefer natural red first and foremost then black then weird colors.

[boribori90]

well hair color hardly has anything to do with it, IMO, but in my mind, I picture brunettes as more attractive.

i find that blondes all look pretty similar, seeing as they're usually from the same part of the world, and that fake blondes never look as good. =\

[Anonymous]

The hottest blondes pales in comparison with the hottest brunettes in my opinion. Think about it. Asian girls, Black girls, Indian girls, Hispanic girls are all mostly brunettes.

Therefore, there is a higher possibility to have hotter brunettes than blondes.

That said, things work out differently for different girls. If you look better as a blond, go for it.

[Opinion Owner]

Woahh 4 thumbs down? All the blondes are hatin.

[Patty_Doll]

So what you're saying is that white girls can't be hot?

[Whoknows87]

brunettes are always sexier...b/c pop culture has conditioned girls to think blonde is better and many girls dye their hair blonde.

Be unique and just be yourself...with so many fish in the sea, you need to set yourself apart in someway.

Keep your natural hair color...natural is better.

[AlekNovy]

Exactly.

That's also the reason why I like natural-haired girls... Because it shows they're not affected by the media. And a girl not being a drone is SO sexy.

[marcelliqua]

BLONDES ARE WAY MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN ANY OTHER HAIR COLOR. blondes look more femine. and the answers I saw on brunettes, is really surprising, I can't imagine what the guys luk like sayin dat. brunettes are blah. and black hair is too dark for girls and black hair in my opinion looks so damn sexy on men of courz I'm only around black hair men because I live in mexico. blondes have always been #1 and will always be #1. I know a lot of gringos are going to deny diz, but they are wrong, blondes hav more fun and da majority of men love blondes.

[martyfellow]

No most of us think blondes really are dumb, or at least they act that way so much of the time because they think guys will think they're sexy.

If you want to be treated like you're dumb, then dye your hair.

Unless they're French, or Norwegian.then we think they're smart AND sexy.

[stargazer1]

Okay, just because you are blonde doesn't mean you make an assumption that she is stupid. What??!?! That sure makes me feel good.

[martyfellow]

Well, I hate to say it but a lot of blondes..of course probably most of them are NOT natural blondes at all...ACT pretty dumb.

I think as I said it's because theythink guys will find that sexy..they're probably not really that dumb.

But that's guys' general feeling about them. Ask any guy...of course some will know it's not politically correct to say...but most will still tell you this

[benjammin09]

It depends, like the girl in the picture is cute and blonde, but really most any hair colors attractive to me except black, and platinum unnatural blonde which makes girls look like skanks. I really like kind of the auburn or strawberry blonde color, but I'll take anything except black, or platinum blonde, and only die your hair if you really want to, don't just do it to attract guys because more than likely your pretty the way you are.

[Rainbows]

That's not even remotely true. Most guys prefer brunettes. There are a zillion questions here with answers that will support this.

Guys preferring blondes is just a retarded stereotype that started decades ago.

[sanseek]

I myself prefer a brunette I think there is just somthing about them that is way hotter than blondes just me though

[palek]

I prefer women with black hair, brown skin, and brown eyes. However, if I were to date a light-skinned woman, I would still prefer black hair. Not a fan of either blonde or brunette hair.

[VoiceOfReason]

I prefer brunettes more than blond. That doesn't mean that women don't look attractive as a blond because there's some very beautiful blonds out there. Granted many guys will go for the blond, but brunettes have always been what appeals to me most.

[Tatiahna]

That's like asking do girls prefer brunettes. It just depends on the guy. Some guys love dark hair but some are into light hair. There are more than looks so once a guy gets to know you then it's all pretty fair.