Movie night.. at his house.. me and him.. A date?

[Anonymous]

I recently went to my crush's house to watch movies. He invited me over. He first asked if I wanted to come over and walk his dogs with him but it was too late by the time I got off work. So I went over and we watched some movies. He had chips and candies out in bowls, and was just very sweet. Was this just a hangout or do you think he was interested? Since then we have gone for lunch on our break and out to a movie (which he paid for and asked me).

[kspytz]

Sounds like a date, is there any other sign that he is interested in you as a bf? Touching, even hand holding? If you are into him I'd give him a sign that you are interested. Casually touch his arm or brush your hand thru his hair like its messed up and your fixing it.

Is he shy? You may have to just come out and say something like, hey we have been or 3 (insert your number of dates here) and you haven't even kissed me good night... Would give you a good sense on where you are. If he is really shy, be ready for him to blush. Of course, you could turn to him and kiss him, I would like that if I were going out with someone I really liked but I wasn't sure she liked me. It's all about risk, take a chance if you like him and lay the cards on the table so you both are on the same page.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you are dating to me! I was really confused about the same thing with my boyfriend for a long time (he was such a gentleman with me that I couldn't tell!), and my advice, knowing what I do now, is this: So long as you are liking the time you have together, don't worry so much about what you call it. You'll figure it out in time. Still... sounds like he's interested to me.

[luvLloyd]

It sounds like a date to me! Go with the flow, flirt with him and see what he does, if he flirts back, then it's all good.