He's 29. I'm 21. How to get him? I want him!!!

[Anonymous]

What exactly do I want from him? Not sure. If I like him enough, I might like to pursue something more with him. But right now, my fantasies are just leading to a good...well, you know ;)

Don't get me wrong though! He seems like a decent guy, but I have ONLY known him for two weeks. That's not adequate time to determine if I want a "relationship" with the guy.

Anyways, I have a class with him. He added me on Facebook. We text each other quite a bit. All that sort of stuff...

I have given him a few compliments. I do flirt a bit (not excessively), but... I really don't think he's the type to pay compliments and/or flirt very much? The most I ever got from him was when we were talking and he said, "you'd definitely look good in that" (talking about a navy uniform).

I just don't know how to go about this one. Guys usually flirt back a bit... but not this one.

And last night we were talking and he said that he usually "doesn't like to be around girls because they p*ss him off". He also told me that he used to play a lot of games, but that he's grown out of that. He... is a grown man with that "bad boy" attitude. I just can't help but to want it!

[rikooprate]

Well then give up. I hate the way women reason. If you want it go get it. "but then I'll be a whore." Then ask him for a date. "But he's not interested." Then go get it. "But then I'll be a whore."

Look, if you want him to ask you out and you have a huge whimsicle romance, based on what you've written sounds like that's not gonna happen. So either be patient and see what happens, f*ck him (literally), or just forget about the whole thing and move on. End of story. 3 answers: choose one. ;)

[rikooprate]

Ask him out to drinks. Get him drunk and take advantage. ANY 29 year old man would love to get inside a 21 year old p*ssy. *ahem* Pardon my French. lol

[Asker]

Getting him drunk wouldn't be a problem. Though I would probably be wasted much sooner than him. haha. But seriously, what if I decide I like him for more than sex later? I don't want to be known as the "slut who got drunk and f*cked him" ya know? That'd totally ruin my chances for anything else! And.... I'm really not the type of girl to sleep with any man. Really. I've had 4 partners. 3 relationships, 1 FWB. But something about this guy....arghh. I dunno!

[grnpari]

Then you have to go on a date with him because that is the ONLY WAY you'll be able to tell whether you like him enough. Nothing wrong with dating :) Doesn't mean you owe him ANYTHING, so don't feel bad if you blow him off because you end up NOT liking him after 1 or 2 dates.

[Anonymous]

Hmm...I'm 22 and the guy I'm into is also 29. He also won't ask me out or flirt lol. I think he's just shy. I'm just going to ask him out cause it's taking him too long. you should do the same.

[NotSoBad]

Why are you attracted to a guy who is 29?

[Opinion Owner]

Because we're in the same field, we like the same music, we both like to travel, we have a ton in common

[rikooprate]

Then ask him out on a date. ;)

[Asker]

A date? But shouldn't he ask me, if he's at all interested? I mean you don't think that whole "I hate girls" thing was a clue... him saying "Nooo way"?